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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Should I contact her and let her know what her fiance has been doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for about a year with a man from another country. I just found out that he has a fiance waiting for him there. I had no idea, and now we are not seeing each other (obviously). Initially, he gave me her contact informat...

Your opinions needed... What is wrong with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - We have been going out for a year. We both love each other. I am suspecting that he is cheating on me with this other girl.. The other day he told me that he hasn't been talking to her recently and told me that she has a boyfriend anyhow. I still ...

I slept with my boss, should I resign?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I´ve been really,really stupid. Last week, after a business meeting, he offered me a ride home. We had been flirting about a month. In the car we started to kiss and he invited me to his home, because his wife was out of town. We had quite a lot of ...

Would you tell a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Would you inform a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful to her? However, this comes from someone who has been cheated on before so there is an obvious bias. Should the wife be informed? I really don't know what to think, m...

I always run back to him although the relationship makes me feel depressed, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am a women over 40 and been dating a guy for 6 yrs. now. If u size it up may be considered 3 yrs.total because of the long distance. I am I feel totally depressed all the time with this relationship. I think he is a BAD HABIT like being addicted ...

Should I continue working on this dead relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - hey guyz im 18 and very confused. my bf of 2 years is an absolute dork. he hurts me and cheats and neva apologises. ive tried leavin him but i always cum runing bk. and nw hes introduced me to hs family. what i want to know is should i continue ...

I'm still so angry! How can someone lie and cheat so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - 5 years ago i met this guy, we hit it off straight away - he was seeing someone else at the time. Couple of months later they had finished and he asked me out - i declined saying i had to much exams and work commitments - he slept with someone else ...

I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2931 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even ...

I must be the world's worst girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I've always had a problem with commitment and very rarely do I get past 3 months with a guy. It normally gets to a point where sex stops, I don't get in the mood for it, any little things that they do really irritate me... but it's not them, I know ...

I feel so slutty! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hi I really need help :/, I'm only fifteen and I can usually get boys with ease but everytime I go see a boy, This may sound werid but I always get really horny and want sex with them and straight after it I always seriosul...

Am I too scared to commit?

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16 February 2009 (?) - I am going to cut the self pity part and simplify it- I have so far had 4 serious bf's and one serious hook-up. (by serious I mean, I really really REALLY liked them) 3 of them cheated on me. One even had sx with another girl while i was on a trip, ...

When will I ever be attracted to another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I had been seeing a man for 2 years, he had a girlfriend, but i was very much in love with him and believed we would end up together. I thought I would give him time to work out his life and if it was me he wanted to be with - but I wasnt. He is now ...

My girlfriend wants her space to think after I cheated on her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend we have been together for two about half years it was hard for me to tell her but I did she was so angry with me, I felt like the scum of the earth knowing what I had did to her it was so hard to hear her cry that much I ...

Need some advice for my mess and his cheating......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Can you advice me? I am at the breaking point cos I don't know what else I can do. Let me explain it to you. I am a deaf mum of 1 kid and live with my hearing partner of 4 years. We are in mid 30's. Since I discovered that he's been cheating on me ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I let his friend finger me???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - Hey, One day I was at my boyfriends and he introduced me to his best friend. At first I wasn't attracted to him but as time went on I started to like him more and more. A few weeks later we were all under a blanket watching a film and he held my ...