New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in February, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (4), 2 (4), 3 (10), 4 (14), 5 (8), 6 (12), 7 (6), 8 (7), 9 (8), 10 (10),
11 (14), 12 (11), 13 (13), 14 (4), 15 (7), 16 (15), 17 (12), 18 (12), 19 (10), 20 (19),
21 (7), 22 (11), 23 (13), 24 (16), 25 (4), 26 (10), 27 (12), 28 (5),

Archived questions from: 18 February, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

(More questions from February, 2009)

Cheating: Help and advice

I think he's cheating, but I'm not sure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Im having trouble in a relationship and Idk if he's cheating or if I should leave him,his 24 and I 18and he also has a child.we only see each other 3 times a month, he doesn't have a cell phone so I can't get into contact with him, I can only speak ...

I've cheated and been taken back, but can I still be friends with "the other guy"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I've been with for a bit more than a year, but before our anniversary we fell out (Broke up and made up 4 times) and I cheated on him with our friend who had a crush on me. The friend shares a lot of interests and ho...

Can she keep using the kids against him to make sure we stay apart or could we be together and him still see his kids???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl and I was seeing a man of 33. We have known each other for nearly 5 years but we were only seeing one another for about a year and a half 2 years. When we first got together he had a girlfriend which I knew about and two kids ...

He finds it so difficult to move out because of the children...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Myself and someone I work with fell in love with each other about 5/6 months ago... we both told each other and things progressed in to a "love affair". There was one problem though. I had a boyfriend, who I ended with because I had no feelings for ...

Can a normally good and genuine person become a cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Is it possible to be a good person who loves a man with all her heart to become a nasty cheat after a lot of hurt, but is it possible for the same person to be loving and faithful to the same man when they both realize they messed up? I know what ...

Please help on how to find closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (?) - Please help me before I go mad. I’ve been involved in a text relationship with a man for almost 3 months. This man happens to be my driving instructor. I am in my early thirties and he is 52. I know cliché! Anyway the story is this........ we have ...

I can't tell my husband where I've been!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hi All, I posted yesterday about my husband text flirting with a colleague (one of her texts verified that it had gone no further) and thanks for all the advice. Although all this happened over 6 months ago, I am getting worse rather than better i...

I'm married but in love with a relative who is my ex, please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I`m happily married, after 9 years i met my childhood boy friend, who`s in love with me without telling it to me coz we`ve blood relation, and i`m in love with him as well..but i`ve keepng it for ages...now his telling me it all...and i can`t fade ...

Hoping he will get divorced?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I am seperated for the past 6 years (really nasty husband) and with a married man for the past 7 years(opened my eyes to the abuse, helping me financially and in every way was there for us)... now i am confused if i should belive that he really ...

My boss kissed me, what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5756 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - i got really really really drunk and my boss kissed me he has a girlfriend and i feel sick with guilt really really really bad any advice please thanks by the way my friend was there with me and she said if wasn't that drunk !...

I've cheated on her 3 times, now she said she needs space! How can I rectify this problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend says she needs space from me, because I cheated numerous times and she took me back every time (cheated about 3x). The last time I got caught she saw me in pictures with the other lady, she forgave me and gave me another chance and ...

Should I move on... or get even???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I recently meet a younger guy, I thought he liked me but it turns out he has numerous partners and is now using his new partners to make me jealous. What should I do? I am absolutely gutted about this. Shall I move on or get even?? ...