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Archived questions from: 14 December, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

I am constantly daydreaming and fantasising about a man other than my husband!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - In my mind, I'm already cheating on my husband. I daydream about this other man constantly and I cannot help it. I try not to think about him, but then my mind starts piecing together these ridiculous stories involving the two of us. From things as ...

I have a really nice guy for a boyfriend but am attracted to a player

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I'm completely confused. For months now, I've been going back and forth between these two guys. I've been available for both of them, but now that it has come down to it, I'm lost. The first guy, I've been with for 11 months today. But I hav...

I cheated on my girlfriend and cannot stop thinking about the other woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I have been happily seeing my girlfriend for just over 3 years. We have never had any problems and she is now 2 months pregnant which is something we are both happy about. However, on a night out at work, i ended up spending most of the night tal...

She cheated and I didnt...but she says she doesn't remember the details..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - My gf is currently studying abroad in Italy. She gets back in a week. We were dating before she left and then I suggested we take a break while she's away. When she was in Europe there was a guy who showed a lot of interest in her and I didn't ...

Do I forgive him or just move on...I feel gutted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world. I moved country to be with him and everything was going great - or so i thought. He never logged onto facebook or msn in front of me and i used to question this. So he did 2 nights ago and i see ...

Am I a lesbian? Will I ever fall in love again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - So I haven't had feelings for a guy since last year. I went out with this guy and he gave me goose bumps, he made me smile and laugh. But he cheated on me, then he dumped me by getting my two friends to call me up. Three days later he had a new ...

Is my boyfriend a nice guy? I think he is lying to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi Thanks all of your time. Dear All I with my BF have been together around 3 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Swiss guy (from Switzerland), and I am Asian girl (Chinese). We were break up with 2 month+ ago. I was confused and...

The man I am involved with is waiting for a married woman, how do I get rid of her from our lives?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I'm seeing a man who has been involved with a married woman for a few years, she tells him that she will leave her husband but they have children and has yet to do so, how do I get her out of our lives....

I've met a really nice man but it turns out he already has a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - I recently met a loving and caring guy on an online dating site. We hit it off right away, and we went on a couple of really good dates. Things started moving into the realm of a possible relationship. Then I found out that he had a boyfriend. ...

Husband deployed in Iraq and I think he is cheating!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - My husband is in Iraq and I haven't talked to him in two weeks. Before he left we were on the verge of getting a divorce. He had to train in Alabama for a month and during that month he called me just once. After the month training He didn't even ...

Does cheating empower women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Is infidelity in the male/female relationship immoral or empowering for the women? Religion can be a factor in the answer if needed....

Is my husband cheating in Iraq???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Me and my husband have been together for almost 7 years now, no children. In the beginning everything was wonderful, I trusted my husband with eveything I had. In my opinion our problems started when he went out with my cousin and a bunch of guys to ...

I thought my ex cheated so I left rude voice messages. Now I want him back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: OP, if you post any replies to this thread, please use proper case. 'Talking' not 'tawken'] im 16 yrs old and i have been tawken t0 this b0y that use t0 be my b0yfriend until my ex bestie t0ld me he cheated 0n me s0 me and her sent...

I feel guilty and can't decide!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - [Note: All names are changed for privacy.] My girlfriend, "Jane," wanted to take a break from our relationship, partly because she was weary of my uncertainty about whether I was committed to the relationship. During the break in our relati...

My boyfriend is talking to his ex behind my back!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Okay this girl messaged me on myspace saying she was a friend of my bf's ex. She was telling me how he was calling her and messaging her on myspace saying how he missed her but he wants to keep it from me till he is ready to tell me. I didn't want ...

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm 27 weeks pregnant tomorrow and my due date is on the 18 march 2010. Me and my partner were having a bit of trouble round the time I think I fell pregnant and I slept with a different boy on the 17th may and 26th june. I wanted to know if ...

I feel my life slipping away and I want to be happy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - I have been posting asking for advice in relation to moving on a mutual attraction. I have been trying to get out of a relationship but find it hard as do not want to be totally alone. I feel b/f is seeing other peoplke as he has not been with me ...

I can't help but feel like he is lying to me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Hi, about a month ago I accidently came across some opened e-mails from dating sites in my boyfriends e-mail account (he always forgets to signout so hotmail opened up to his, and I didn't realize it was his right away). Anyways, he denied opening ...

Can I regain the trust of an ex-cheater?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

14 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend "befriended" another man when her and I were serious. I caught her sleeping at his place multiple times, but she would never admit to cheating. As soon as I broke up with her (for cheating) she immediately entered a relationship with ...

My husband doesn't show me any attention... he prefers porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

14 December 2009 (F) - Well I've been married for 1 year and a couple months ago my husband has started watching porn on his i phone and he was so caught up with it that he wouldn't even go to bed up until 4 am in the morning. He wouldn't even pay attention to me even ...