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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Married but falling for another man, what should I do!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - what do i do. im married, 1 child. great marriage, no lies, no infidelity, and no drama. but i think im falling for another man. hes married too. iv been apart working this past year and this man is working with me. were both apart from loved ones. ...

It has taken me two weeks to pluck up the courage to post on here, please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - hello all i am so much in need of advice iv made a right mess of everythin u know when theres so much to explain but dont know where to start. i have been in a relatinship for 13 yrs he was not very nice to me and refused to commit, took all my ...

I think I made a mistake...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I 'think' I've made a mistake, i had just had a huge fight with my boyfriend and i went to a mates house, we chatted and watched movies. it got late and i stayed over i borrowed a nighty but it was a bit big and kept falling off. we shared the bed ...

Although we've made up now my boyfriend is having a party and the girl he cheated with might be there!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago - slept with someone else at a party. Completely unexpected and completely against my morals. More detail in previous q's of mine! But to the point of this one... Rightly, or probably wrongly, i gave ...

I don't know whether to be with him or move on after this happening... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago my boyfriend slept with someone else out of the blue... complete surprise and never thought he would ever do anything like that. Have been trying to move on - with him - trying couples counselling. Feel some issues are ...

He cheated and got someone else pregnant! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 years got someone else pregnant and we have a 2 year old should I stay or go?...

I'm with the guy I cheated with, only to have sex with my husband. Is that cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I cheated on ny husband two years ago and now we're separeted.Im now with the guy I cheated on my husband with but this guy doesn't pay attention to me the way my husband did.Six months ago I had sex with my husband and I confessed this to the guy ...

Is the reason why I cheat on my boyfriend because I don't love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - So heres the deal. im not writing this to have people criticise my situation or anything, I already know its wrong what I'm doing. I'm just looking for someone who may have gone through the same sort of deal. Ive been with my boyfriend 4 year...

How do I deal with a beautiful woman hitting on my husband 1000 miles away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - I'm at my wits end. I'm trying to be rational but the emotional side is winning. I need help! I'm trying to keep a long story short, so please be patient. My husband took a temporary job for 8 weeks that is 1,100 miles from our home. The owner ...

My bf got drunk and threatened me with a knife and I wound up sleeping with his best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - Me, my boyfriend (who we'll call Andrew), his best friend (who we'll call Nick), and another friend of ours went out to a bar the other night together and all of us were kind of drinking a lot. Andrew got absolutely smashed all of the sudden and ...

Part of me feels I should play the field, especially since I'm not as sexually attracted to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

8 December 2009 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for a long time now, and i seriously think he's the one. But since things have started to get serious i don't find myself as sexually attracted to him anymore, and we rarely have sex. We both work together and for...