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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend "befriended" another man when her and I were serious. I caught her sleeping at his place multiple times, but she would never admit to cheating. As soon as I broke up with her (for cheating) she immediately entered a relationship with him. We are back together now, and she still won't admit that she ever cheated. Now, when she's not around and/or doesn't answer/return my calls I get paranoid.I want to keep tabs on her all the time, but I know that's not fair.I love her and don't want to call it quits, but how do I address these serious trust issues without being accusative?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009): It's your last lifeline.
"Poll the audience" Regis.
7 out of 7 polled say No you can't regain the trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): kick this one to the curb. whose fooling who? she is a cheater and she will not change. you are young, get rid of the cheater and start enjoying your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I caught her at his place again, so you're all right...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): NO
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 December 2009):
 I agree, if she doesn't admit to it and you know for sure she was cheating, she obviously sees nothing wrong with cheating and will most likely do it again. It will be hard, but you've probably got to move on to someone more honest. Good luck.
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reader, westgirl  +, writes (14 December 2009):
Well to be honest with you. I cheated on my partner when we first go together and I personally wouldn't do it again. I love him to bits x
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reader, kissmenow  +, writes (14 December 2009):
once a cheater, always a cheater. If there is no trust or honesty- there is nothing. good luck.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 errk! You dont trust her, and yet you took her back? You know she cheated but she still wont admit it, what was she doing when she spent the nights at his place, playing Monopoly?? Until she is honest with you there can be no trust in this relationship, and without trust it's doomed to failure.
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