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*oxy123
writes:Well I've been married for 1 year and a couple months ago my husband has started watching porn on his i phone and he was so caught up with it that he wouldn't even go to bed up until 4 am in the morning. He wouldn't even pay attention to me even though i exercised and made sure to look very nice for him. Recently i met someone that has been really great to me and so attentive, and my question is (is it OK that i have been tempted to cheat on my husband with this guy because of the lack of attention from him?)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): In my opinion you are already cheating in your heart.Giving your emotional energy to another is the first stage in the adultry process.His porn addiction is a destruction habit robbing you of the emotional energy that you need.I would get counseling fast before you screw up your life.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 December 2009):
 Cheating won't solve anything, you need to talk to him about this. You know cheating is wrong, and I hate to say it, worse than looking at porn. You should sit him down and tell him about how it's hurting you. First you need to understand it's not because of you that he's doing this, so working out and dressing up pretty won't make him change. Porn is addicting if taken in too large of doses. If he won't stop even after you talk to him, he might need counseling. If he refuses, maybe you should take a break and hope he realizes that you're better than his hand and a bunch of photos.
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reader, MeBeTonya +, writes (14 December 2009):
 As much as we women need and want attention from our partner, you know in your heart that it is NOT okay to cheat. If you are not happy with your husband then leave him. Dont cheat. If you have talked to him in reference to his constant inattentiveness and he still continues to ignore you, then why stay? I always say its easier to hurt for a short period of time from ending relationships than it is to constantly hurt from the pain of a bad relationship. Either outcome seems to still have some sort of pain... But the choice is yours.
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