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writes:My workmate was staying with us after a party and when i had gone to bed she seduced my husband-i came down stairs to find them both naked.the following morning i didnt mention it to her as i was in shock. My hubby and i have discussed it and are able to cope but the problem is that i have to face her soon and im feeling extremely antagonistic towards her.We only work one day a week together but shes my supervisor.i feel like if i try to talk to her about it im just going to have a screaming fit. What is the best way to deal with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, young and opinionated +, writes (10 August 2009):
 If he goes this far knowing that you are just upstairs, what would he do if you were not around!!??!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): you will never be able to trust him again. if you have no children in the marriage, run like hell! take it from someone who has been there and stayed.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (10 August 2009):
 Your husband is just as much to blame as she is.
She may have come onto him but it takes 2 to tango.
so please bare this in mind when you next see her.
You forgave your husband, so why is it you cannot you forgive her? they are both as bad as each other.
the best thing I feel is if you want to air this out with her, next time your at work with her msg her and ask if she fancies going out after work to discuss things.
When your out of work you can ask her why she behaved recklessly but remember your husband was just as much naked as she was, he didnt have to behave like that with her also.
Keep these types of discussions outside of work and behave professionally in the workplace.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): you found your work colleague naked with your hb. you claim that she seduced him. how sure are you. don't be too quick to blame this other woman. both her and YOUR HB are equally to blame for having sex (?)why are you feeling antagonistic towards her and not your hb. after all he betrayed you, he broke your marriage vows. after all he was being serviced by the work colleague yet noe he claims she seduced him. poor poor man. i am sure he just feels so bad that he helped himself to someone other than his wife. and i am sure you feel sorry for him too???
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (10 August 2009):
 You have to ignore it and pretend it never happened. You didn't address it the morning after, so don't address it now. Just be professional with her and leave it at that.Sorry for what you're going thru. I've been cheated on but never with someone I had to work with. You have to be strong.
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