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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I slept with my first cousin about 3 weeks ago.. i then started to care for him very much and he the same. i dont know what to do bc we text eachother and talk everyday. it is becoming a long distance relationship, bc he lives 2 hours away. I do nothing but think about him. he feels the same for me. only problem is he has a girlfriend. and she lives with him. he works alot and when he aint working he is home, with her. he texts me and calls me when he can, but we havent seen eachother since we slept together and we r trying to plan when we can see eachother, but its hard bc of his work. There is a huge party my family is having at the end of summer, and i need him to come. Alone! without his girlfriend.. but he says he dont know yet bc of work and also hopfully she wont want to come! what should i do? i dont want to get hurt my him but hes always on my mind, and truly i want him to leave his girlfriend, and be with me. HELP!
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (10 August 2009):
I think you should consider the consequences of being with your first cousin. What will the rest of your family think? How will they react if the 2 of you are together at a FAMILY party?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 August 2009):
 He'll leave his girlfriend if he wants to, he'll be with you if he wants to be. Just don't let him use you and that's exactly what this sounds like to me.
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