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writes:I just found out from a friend that while I was away for school (my girlfriend and i lived in different cities but saw eachother every weekend and some weekdays), she slept in another guys bed with him. I know they did not have sex but I don't know if anything else happened. Not only was it another guy but it was someone she used to sort of date. I'm really hurt but I don't know if I'm over reacting. She also had told me that when they saw eachother they never had sex ever but it turns out that was a lie as well. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, soulsearcher81 +, writes (10 August 2009):
Well one lie is going to be repeated with a lie at some point. You need to decide for yourself what you can deal with and be about to take in your relationship with your gf. Do you doubt she didn't have sex with this old fling? There are lines to not cross and it sounds like your line for your comfort zone got crossed. Have you spoken to her about what you will and will not tolerate in the relationship? Try that out and just talk about issues at hand. But you both will have to decide if in the end its what you both want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): I couldn't live with the fact that my gf (slept) with an ex and i didnt kick her to the curb!I wouldn't expect anybody to stay with me or anyone I know for this type of bs.Come on dude,MAN UP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): Dump her mate. Unfortenately the weighing scales have jumped on
The wrong side for you. If this girl of yours is supposed to be your
Serious partner/mate. And you have found out she has been
In bed together with an ex fling, your gonna have to wake up
And smell the roses, realize that she was doing something else
Than Reading him a bedtime story. Or if you are crazy for this girl
Try to put it in the past but you don't want to feel like a fool
So make sure you get caught in bed with an ex fling and claim that
You just wanted to read pinnochio together. She should understand
As it's A famous story about telling a tale or two. Good luck Romeo
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