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Archived questions from: August, 2021 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Why would my partner want to leave his seven year old son suddenly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

29 August 2021 (F) - Why would my partner want to leave his seven year old son suddenly? I am lost because its been the plan to move to his city until his son was 18. He also, comments that he never wanted his son. He wanted his ex to get an abortion. My partne...

I know his kids will come first and I wouldn’t want it any other way but where do I fit in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

29 August 2021 (F) - Can you aunts and uncles give me some advice on dating a man with kids? I’ve been dating a man for about two month, we both have a lot of work commitments due to the job we do so this gives little time to meet up. He also has two children to diff...

My wife was crying on our wedding day because she was thinking about her ex!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

29 August 2021 (M) - I got married almost a month ago. My wife and I have been together for three years and known each other for five. She had just gotten out of a seven year relationship when we met. He was her first love and they broke up because he was on drugs and ...

Am I wrong to make rules for my cheating boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

27 August 2021 (F) - I’ve recently taken back my boyfriend after he cheated on me. Am I right in telling him he can’t go out with his mates because I think they are a bad influence on him? The last thing I’d ever want to be is a controlling partner as I cannot STAN...

US Expats in Netherland dealing with Depression

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1219 days ago

25 August 2021 (F) - We're American expats in the Netherlands, been here since April 2012. Life has been good, although we've had clashes over friendships; my fiance tries/tried to stay within an expat bubble of Americans, Canadians, Australians and British people a...

Guy has criminal background. When do you let the past be the past?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1217 days ago

24 August 2021 (F) - Over the course of a year, I have fallen in love with a man who occassionally comes to service my work place’s building. He has also developed feelings for me which we both recently admitted to. The characteristics he has exhibited...

I want to tell the father of my daughter how I feel about him but I'm petrified he won't feel the same way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1225 days ago

19 August 2021 (F) - I want to tell the father of my child how I really feel about him but I’m petrified that he won’t feel the same because of the age gap. I’m 30 whereas he’s only 24. It’s honestly a situation I’d never imagined I’d find myself in with him. He w...

Is Porn good to watch? or it's a Sin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1227 days ago

17 August 2021 (M) - Everytime I watch porn, something bad is happening from the next day and it stays for a few days and everything will be fine later. But, I can't stop watching porn because somewhere in daily life is triggering me to watch porn. It maybe from TV ...

I regret doing so much for people over the years. Only to find myself alone that too on my birthday

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1223 days ago

14 August 2021 (M) - I can’t help but feel disappointed. My bday will be by time this message gets posted and I feel so alone. I have text a few friends that may have forgotten but they are busy. Close friends knew but are working and have made no plans to even just ...

Relationships and incontinence

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1231 days ago

13 August 2021 (M) - Im doubley incontinence and have to wear nappies-diapers and plastic pants and have done so for a very long time. As i result ive had no relationship of any kind and get deeply depressed. Just wondering if anyone else went through the same problems...

Why does he try to please others but not his own family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1212 days ago

13 August 2021 (F) - I am wondering if anybody can explain the reasons behind my husbands behaviour. We are a second marriage of nearly 4 years and in our late 60’s . We each have our own family but my husband spends a lot of time ‘trashing’ his family but running ...

Is a 17 year age gap to much?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1184 days ago

13 August 2021 (F) - Is a 17 year age gap too big? I’ve being dating a man who’s 17 year older than me. He’s got three kids to two different women. He’s never been married and I don’t know what went wrong with the two ex’s. It’s early days so I don’t want to ask too ...

Scared my boyfriend will lose interest

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1230 days ago

12 August 2021 (F) - I am scared that my boyfriend (18M) is gonna get bored of me (16F) before telling abt my problem we do a long-distance relationship we call/ft pretty much everyday. my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months and we start school very soon we ...

Things were great, then suddenly she blocked me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1229 days ago

12 August 2021 (M) - Hey all and first off, thanks for taking the time to review my situation. So this started a little under a month ago, me and this woman I met through the internet have been chatting 24/7 every day. Met up a couple times and hit it off. Things ...

Why do I desire her so much when I know in reality is 100% a never?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1235 days ago

9 August 2021 (M) - Why do I desire her so much when I know in reality is 100% a never?...

Why does no one in my life care or ask?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

4 August 2021 (M) - It’s that time in my life again. A few things fell apart and I’ve had a few hurdles. Whenever times like this come I feel alone. But I always force myself to think it is all in my mind. Except when 2 weeks pass and you haven’t really had any contact ...

Why is my platonic friend blocking and ghosting me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1243 days ago

2 August 2021 (M) - Hi all, thanks in advance. I'm having issues with a platonic friend of mine. She's become my best friend and we've been close for about 2-years. 'L' and I both work together, we live nearby and often hang out and carpool, and we talk on the phon...

Why am I not good enough for a relationship, or even fun a second time ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1242 days ago

1 August 2021 (F) - Hi, please help I am really struggling I am trying to understand the pattern of events that keep happening. I have just got back onto the dating scene and wanted to have fun to gain casual experience, but ultimately looking for more. It see...

Way too much drama involving my cat and my roommate while I'm away on holiday

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1242 days ago

1 August 2021 (F) - I left my cat with the woman I was staying with while I went to see my ldr bf. The trip is a month and I'm halfway through now. I never asked her to watch her she said she would and it would be no problem and since I got here it's been nothing but ...