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Big Questions: Help and advice

I think I'm caught in what would be called a roundabout, complicated form of porn addiction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1975 days ago

31 July 2019 (M) - Hi everyone. I am sixteen years old. I am a normal bloke, I think. Or maybe I am not. I have been reading this website a lot for the past one week. I generally understand that a lot guys struggle with porn. I also understand that porn has ...

What are the chances they are having an emotional affair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1981 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - We purchased a home for my son and his fiancée and their daughter with his trust. We have been renovating the home to have it ready for them by August . I noticed my husband becoming more and more distant and him working different hours than he ...

My girlfriend's hoarder sist.er wont move out

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1981 days ago

25 July 2019 (F) - My girlfriends sister (41) will not move out! My girlfriend (28) and I (27) have been together for about three years...for most of that we have lived together. The first year my girlfriend rented and I moved in with her and not long after her s...

A girl I like has told me she might get back with her ex, should I tell her again, how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

25 July 2019 (M) - I met a girl who at that time told me that she is still not over her ex boyfriend and wanted to take it as friends for the time being if that is acceptable with me. She seemed cool and I was okay with that at that point. We started as friends and ...

Why do some men perceive women as entertainment

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

24 July 2019 (F) - Why do some men perceive women as entertainment . I’ve seen this attitude from so many men and even seen it stated here on this round that women are men’s entertainment . Why do some Men think women are here solely for their viewing pleasure...

How can I get my partner to be a better parent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1983 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - Hi I’ve been with my fiancé for 8 years we have a 4 year old daughter I have a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship the problem is not a very good father he has never done any night Feeds or changed a nappy when she was a baby I have ...

I'm interested in an older guy, how do I find out if he is married?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1957 days ago

23 July 2019 (F) - for the past two months or so ive been wanting to speak to someone who is older then me , a lot of people who ive spoken to about this have give me mixed opinions . its the first time ive ever wanted to speak to someone older , he is older then me ...

My boyfriend is repulsing me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1904 days ago

22 July 2019 (F) - This is going to sound really bad, but i am starting to get really repulsed by my bf. We broke up breifly this yr n got bk together for the kids but i still feel the same. I see him like a friend, no spark, nothing in common anymore and i honestly ...

My Baby Daddy never follows through on promises, how can I make him happy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1981 days ago

22 July 2019 (F) - I have been with my baby Daddy boyfriend for almost two years. I have stayed with him when he was unemployed for 6 months, quit jobs and been broke. I have worked full time even when I was pregnant. We split up for two weeks because I finally ...

I'm single and pregnant, despite complications with the baby the father doesn't want to know about us.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1982 days ago

21 July 2019 (F) - So I was dating a guy for 2 months, going really well then he ended the relationship due to the fact he didn't like the fact I have children, 3 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with his child, (implant broke) he said when he found out he ...

How Do I Begin Feeling Happy About Other People Success?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1986 days ago

21 July 2019 (F) - How do I begin being happy for others? Two years ago, I lost my job and got into a car accident. While I’m trying to get back on my feet, I see that my friends are moving out of my parents’ homes. I still live with mine. A majority of people I know ...

He quickly gives offers of help but wont do paid work for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1986 days ago

20 July 2019 (F) - I became friendly with a guy who did work for me. We became friends on facebook so I suppose lost the trader/customer boundary. However he has let me down a few times now but if I have posted about needing something ie a code checker for my car or ...

My girlfriend constantly complains about her weight but wont do anything about it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1980 days ago

20 July 2019 (M) - How do I deal with my gf complaining about her weight. I used to pressure her to keep an eye in her weight but she loves eating junk. I gave up about 3-4 years ago as we went from size 10 to 16. She is adamant it’s because it’s certain parts an...

Married to a selfish man but I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1986 days ago

19 July 2019 (F) - How do i stop caring about what my husband thinks of me!? Hes a very selfish person and i think i made a miatake marrying him. I cant leave because i love him but it doesnt feel like he loves me the same...

Can you make yourself love someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1997 days ago

8 July 2019 (F) - Well. Where do I start? Six years ago I met my husband and he inspired me to stop doing the party girl thing. Overtime i realized I had been shallow and never given men like him a chance before. (He is not physically what I was use to dating) I ...

Our wedding venue and honeymoon for next year are booked but our relationship is a disaster, my boyfriend refuses therapy and I feel unloved, unwanted, sad and totally lost

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

7 July 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 7 years, and for 5 of those years we lived together. We had our fair share of arguments but otherwise have had a pretty stable relationship. He proposed last year and we're due to be married in ...

I'm in a slightly wobbly relationship where I do love my partner but my best friend just professed his love for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Hey dearcupid Community! So, I'm in a bit of a predicament. Theres my partner. Been with him for 6 years in September. God I love him, he's not in a dark place, even his parents say how far he's come from what he once was and how certain thin...

Why did a man I know take my hand to examine my rings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Why did a man I know take my hand to examine my rings? He just grabbed a hold of my last three fingers and slowly twisted my rings back and forth while examining them. Do you think this behavior is strange? Does it seem flirtatious? ...

I walked in on my husband performing oral sex on my best friend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Hi there. I am 29 years old and have been married for 5 years. My husband and I have been together since we were young teens. I never thought he could hurt me but I was away on holiday with my friend and we came home early, when i returned I walked ...

Why do men want women to emulate their "fantasy" woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

4 July 2019 (F) - Why are women so often told to try and see what their man likes inmpirn an emulate that . How can a woman possibly be Swedish, Asian , big breasted , small breasted , tall , petite , black , white or any of those other things that men so often seek ...

Straight friend wants to try gay sex with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

3 July 2019 (M) - This guy and me, we're friends from childhood, we have known each other our whole lives. I'm gay and he's straight. Recently he broke up with his girlfriend and that's when he told me he'd like to try it with a guy (it meaning sex). I told hi...

Is this a friendly sign or a flirty one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

2 July 2019 (F) - I text a male acquaintance and signed off 'ciao for now'. He questioned me on ciao and told me I had spelt it wrong (ciou is what I said). He then replied with 'so I will say Ciao Bella'. Men who would you say this to and women would you see it as ...