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writes:I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He's attractive, very funny, and he has made me happy. I love being around him and the other night when he was very drunk he asked me why I liked him and that he wanted to start treating me like a girlfriend. (I told him he was drunk and I never brought up the conversation again.") The thing is- I hold back my emotions and feelings. I don't tell him that I enjoy his company and we're always joking around (whatever it may be about). I do it because I'm afraid I'm going to say something and chase him away. Maybe that's why he jokes around too? But anyway, my mother passed away in March. I never told him. I didn't tell him because I didn't want him to feel bad for me and I honestly didn't think I was going to see him for this long. He asks about my mom here and there and I always lie. I know I need to tell him but it's just so hard when we never have a serious moment together. So I guess my question is: How do I tell him or should I even tell him? We're only dating.
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reader, jasmann09` +, writes (16 July 2009):
 i really think you should tell him because if yall really get into a serious relationship he might want to meet her so my advice is too tell him
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 i think you should tell him i mean this may bring you closer together and more on a relationship level.
so what you're only dating you guys have a close bond together he always asks about your mum so maybe you should just tell him.
it's more difficult for you tell him about your mum rather than have him hearing about it.
so you just tell him in a way you feel is more comfortable for you.
i think you and this guy can go places and you telling him about your mum will bring you guys ALOT closer together.
you should tell him how he makes you feel that'll bring you closer together as well :)
sorry to hear about your mum passing it's tough i know i lost my mum when i was young
message me if you want talk sugar :)
hope this helps hun.
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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