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writes:Hi, I am really going through a disturbing situation now days. Six months back I went out of country for 2 months business training. When I came back found my girlfriend behavior a little mischievous it was like she is hiding something from me. After one month I got her email password and I read all her chats, while I was away she got engaged with another guy in her office. And that guy betrayed her as he too was having another girlfriend from one year. He also had sex once with my girlfriend. When I confronted my girlfriend with this she said that it was a mistake from her and that sex was not with her permission that guy did it forcefully.Now, I do not believe my girlfriend, I really love here a lot but I am confused what should I do now. Should I leave her or what? Please also let me know how I can forget all these things happened to me.Please save me….
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reader, Long Distance Love 09  +, writes (17 July 2009):
yeah man, for yourself you've just gotta be cold to this girl and leave her. She did it. If you stick around you will become a shell of a man - no self respect, and she will have all the power in the relationship. I had an ex cheat on me, and I stuck with her. I really regret it. You should tell her how much it hurt you, how you really cared for her, but you respect yourself too much to stick with her after this. Then leave and don't call her. After some time (a couple weeks). If it is meant to be, she will realize her error and try to get you back. Make her try hard before giving in if you do decide to go back to her, and if she doesn't try to get you back, then good riddance to her. Think of your mental state first. That's the most important thing here.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2009):
 If it was me I would leave her.Her memory will fade with time , and it helps to make new ones.
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