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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How do I approach this sort of conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - hello all Just need advice on how to approach a tricky situation with my newish bf, or if I should at all. when i was younger i was sexually abused by a family member, close friends know, and i'm not asking for help to get over what happened b...

Love Tactics - How to Win the One You Want - Advice from anyone who has read it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I'm interested to hear from anyone who has read the book 'Love Tactics - How to Win the One You Want' by Thomas McKnight and Robert Phillips. I've been following the advice in this book with someone I care for since last summer but I'm finding it ...

He finally asks me to marry him and I'm filled with dread...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my guy for 4 years and even though we have had loads of ups and downs, very little in common I have always been desperate to make the relationship work. Madly in love with him basically. Then recently he started talking-finally- ...

Living with an alcoholoc...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - hey, I am wondering if anyone can help me? I have been with my partner for over 10 years and we have 3 beautiful daughters but for the past few years he has been drinking heavily. I had finally had enough in the middle of 2008 when I was pregnant ...

Do good looking people get advantages in life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - does being goodlooking/cute looking have advantagaes in sport,getting job,finding love etc not talking about me just in gerenal.goodlooking people get treated better then plain looking people...

What does "All is fair in love & war" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - This is just a general question, and the internet doesnt really help so i thought i'd ask it. Ive heard the saying "Alls fair in love and war" alot lately and i just wondered what it actually means. Lol i feel a bit dumb asking people who have said ...

Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Why is it that racism has all of a sudden become a big joke to people? I know some people (like me) HATE racism in any shape or form, and get really angry when people say racist things. To me, it's not right. Whether it's religion, skin colo...

How do you relax around guys when you have low esteem and weight problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - hi i was woundering how do i relax arounds guys if a guy touched me i go weak in the kness and get nevervous and tense up.the last time i was in nightclub a guy had his arms around my waist and i felt very nervous and shy.i was weak in the kness.the ...

Why do men tell you lies when they don't have to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I believe I've fallen in a deep depression. I use to be the girl that that loved life and people. I would hug strangers and always look for the best in people. Lately life has really beaten me down. Last year my husband wanted out of our 13 yea...

I'm confused - shoulkd I keep the baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - hi! im 23 years of age and have been dating a guy for 1 year and a month now...ever since we went out 3 times and yet he says he loves me. he calls me everyday and texts me with sweet msg's. at first i had to cope up with his father who didnt ...

Do black men really have larger penises?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I am white women who has only dated white men, but my friend has a black boyfriend and she tells me he is the best sex she has ever had, she only dates black men. she says they have the biggest penis'. I want to know if this is just a coincidence, ...

Is death so bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Is death so bad? Is there anything, after we die? And if there isn't that life is just a big trip? Sometimes good, sometimes bad? How can we make sense of all that? I don't think death is so bad... It is just ending your long suffering. When life ...

I really don't know what to do with myself, I'm confused and depressed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Hi I've been separated for about 10 years now and have a 12-year-old son. I've been through to a lot of relationship after my separation and my husband was remarried too and had a daughter already to his 2nd wife but was separated again 2 years ago. ...

Married young, no kids, divorce dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in a love triangle and I need your help and advice.... I'm 19 years old and I'm married so I guess that would make this not just cheating but have an affair... I've been married a little over a year now and we dated 2 years before we got ...