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writes:I have been with my guy for 4 years and even though we have had loads of ups and downs, very little in common I have always been desperate to make the relationship work. Madly in love with him basically. Then recently he started talking-finally- about getting married and I just got this feeling of dread deep down inside. Now I am starting to doubt that we could ever make each other happy, I feel so lost. This is all I have wanted for so long. Anyone been in a similar sitauion? I feel like I love him but can't be with him any more. God it's messed up- and I feel so bad for the hurt I am clearly causing him, he wasn't expecting this reaction at all. Reply to this Question
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reader, Figster86 +, writes (12 January 2009):
Do you think that maybe your expecting it to feel more than it is? yourve had a build up about marriage for so long that whe it happens its not as exciting as you first thought? marrage is scary of course your going to be confused, its kind of like christmas all that build up and when its here you feel like theres nothing to look forward to because your momment has gone. I am sure that your thinking too much you sound like you love this man to pieces and really want this just go for it and be happy. all the best
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