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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

What do I do... my husband has left

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My husband of 21 years has left me after telling me he has feelings for this woman. He says he can't come home for the damage he has done to me and our 3 teenager children. He does show remorse, he feels bad for the way things have turned out, we ...

Is 33 years plus old over the hill???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Is 33 years plus old over the hill truthfully Because I feel its is... your youth is gone......

What goes on in a man's mind???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I was starting to see a man from my past, it's been 9 years since I saw him last. We had sex off and on for 13 years, never my boyfriend. We were just there for each other. Now he came back into my life and wants to be my boyfriend and said that ...

I'm suffering with bi polar disorder...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hello all - I have posted before and just really need some encouragement. I suffer with bi-polar disorder and I'm having a very rough day today. As I'm writing I'm crying because I feel so overwhelmed with EVERYTHING my depression my family, house ...

What do GIRLS consider to be the size of a big penis and a small penis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Okay everyone asks what is the AVERAGE penis size. However I'd just like to know: 1)What do girls consider big or large 2)What do girls consider small I know the results will vary for everyone but I was just wondering. Post your thoughts a...

Because of learning difficulties, I feel I have wasted my life repeating exams and feeling stupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Do people with a learning diffcultiesy get anywhere in life> I have had learning diffculties all my life and life is impossible. Everything I do I fail at it and I'm left behind, like years behind. For people with NO learning diffculties, life ...

A replay of my question on my longtime crush. I need answsers by tomorrow!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings...

What do women mean when the say "It's not the length, it's how you use it"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm not trying to offend any women,but when you say "It's not the size of his tool,it's how he uses it that matters" what do you mean? I also have heard that being able to perform oral well is also good,what's the best way or a good technique. ...

Would stretch marks and odd-shaped nipples put a girl off me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm not large or what ever term you want to use for being heavy.However I do have small stretch mark scars on the underside of my arm and on my shoulder. 1)Is that odd or bad? 2)Would a girl be turned off entirely? Well this question will soun...

What signals do girls give to let you know they like you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I'm a shy male teen who essentially goes unnoticed by the female sex! I don't think I'm ugly or unattractive,but I also don't think I'm amazingly handsome. I have some confidence issues as well as trust issues. One of my female frie...

Don't know what I want to do with my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Ok to start how about a little insite to my life so far, as to better (hopefully) understand me. I'm a 19 yr old mother. I've been married for a yr and a half now. I'm only 5' 3" and weight 131 on my bathroom scale. I wasnt supposed to be a...

Should I keep wasting my time and wait for this to happen someday, or find a new life already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over four years. It will be five in March. So I have been with him since I was thirteen. That's a lot of my young life. Sometime I think I've wasted it, and almost everyone tells me so, but other times I ...

Why do men cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - why do men cheat on girls? when they claim their inlove with you....why do they cheat period....

Do we exist?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) - Im going to pick an emotion or whatever you call them. Love. Is it an emotion? A feeling? A force? You are welcome to post your opinion. My opinion is that there is no such thing... the most perfect explanation. Its just an illusion, an hal...