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What does "All is fair in love & war" mean?

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Question - (12 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *.L writes:

This is just a general question, and the internet doesnt really help so i thought i'd ask it. Ive heard the saying "Alls fair in love and war" alot lately and i just wondered what it actually means. Lol i feel a bit dumb asking people who have said it. . . thnx x

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A female reader, D.L United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2009):

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Thankyouuu, yeah ive got a better understanding now. x

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A female reader, Jillybean234 United States +, writes (13 January 2009):

Jillybean234 agony auntIts actually means exactly what it says ALL IS FAIR, in love and war.

It means that you need to fight for the one you love. It is comparing love to war kind of.

Sorry its really hard to explain. haha but i hope it helped!

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (12 January 2009):

Stayc63088 agony auntI know what it means but it is one of those things that is kind of hard to directly define, so I looked it up.

"All is fair in love and war" - Behavior that is unpleasant or not fair is acceptable during an argument or competition.

The cliché, "All is fair in love and war," implies that people can suspend the law or the rules in special circumstances. Like being in love.

The second one is the one I thought it meant but couldn't quite put it into words as eloquently.

Hope this helps you!

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A female reader, kymommy United States +, writes (12 January 2009):

the way i look at it is that if you are in love with someone then you do anything to protect your relationship. You fight for it. no matter if its problems between the two of you or intrusion on someone eles that wants what you have. "Alls fare in love and war"

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