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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Am I as gay as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - For the past year I have known, (or at least thought) that I am gay. I am not attracted to women physically, nor have I ever been. But I am still yet to find a boy that I love. I have fallen in love with girls, but not with boys, but am sexually ...

I need a new me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Might be a superficial question but I'm very down about myself these days. It's because of the way I look and how I think this makes people treat me differently, earlier this week I decided I wanted a change, and I wanted to dye my hair dark instead ...

My friend is a good mum but she doesn't eat enough and I'm scared she will pass out and I'm worried about the kids...

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15 January 2009 (F) - I have a very good friend but I think she has an eating problem. She starves all day and is below size 4 in clothes size, she has two young kids below 2. She also has a boyfriend, whenever he gets in from work she starts an argument and is ...

Are we in control for own our life, or we just think we are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Are we in control for own our life, or we just think we are? Can chance rule our life ? How many times do we have plans and good intentions and they get ruined by bad luck? Do we have a destiny? Is God makes this weird plans for us? Or do we alw...

Need an answer to this asap or it will drive me mad

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15 January 2009 (F) - Hi, have a male friend, who is also a family friend, we have always been really close and can usually talk about anything. Of late I have been feeling very emotional and confused about a lot of things. I have tried to talk to people about it but ...

Mom shags other men while dad films... now I can't get the images out of my head.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - My parents moved home recently and I have been storing some boxes at my house. They were boxes from the loft so hadn't been looked at in a while, one was an old suitcase which contained some video tapes. I brought the case down and played one of the ...

I am gay and I should be with women but I still feel that the father issue is not solved in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I was brought up by my mum and great auntie, both strong and independent women. My mother married my father but then left him as she found it difficult to live with him (she moved to another country to be with him there and felt very isolated, my ...

I haven't had any luck with women tonight, and it's made me miserable. How can I stop worrying about being single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - Why has coming home from a club become so depressing? I'm at a difficult time in my life. I'm not in a relationship and I feel like I really should be more capable at attracting women than I am. I'm 20 and I've only dated 4 women in my life, 3 of...

Should I ask him to visit me during spring break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - My former college prof and I are really good friends. I'm falling for him (I can't stop thinking about him) and I'm pretty sure he likes me back, but we're both painfully shy. We've been flirting back and forth a lot and have gone out a couple times ...

My best friend has plans for me and her after high school...and I'm not so sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm a junior in high school. My best friend is moving to Florida soon... and well, she has all these great plans for her and I meeting up after I graduated and she plans on us living together so we can go to college together. Well, I'm not...