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Age differences: Help and advice

Do you think I have even the smallest chance with my long distance crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - I really suffer from a breakup...Okay, to be honest, it wasn't even a breakup. It was a rejection. My long distance crush is 21 and I’m turning 16 next month. The guy is simply awesome! I can tell you he's worth all my tears cause all my friends ...

Am I wasting my time with legally separated man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3278 days ago

31 December 2015 (F) - Dear all, I am dating a wonderful man who is legally separated but not divorced. He is 10 years older than me, he lives 5 mins from his family home with two teenage daughters and on very good terms with his ex which I'm ok with. My concern i...

He and I have dated for 18 years but he's become less interested. Should I move on to this younger man I've been talking to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

30 December 2015 (M) - I am a gay man, an I have been with my bf for 18yrs, in 2010 I was diagnosed with Hiv he was not and then I was admitted to hospital with pneumonia and nearly died my CD4 count was 19 in a healthy human it's over 500 and in the thousands. Throug...

My mother is having an affair with a married man. Worried that she'll be hurt. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, My mum is having an affair with a married man. It started 5 years ago when she was caring for my father who had dementia. He was coming around the house as his job is to teach computers and mum wanted to learn. I knew about it b...

Will it look like I am chasing my ex if I message him about his plans for New Year's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - I have been out on a few dates with my ex boyfriend over the last 6 months. He had made me feel alive again after not seeing hm for about 15 yrs. we don't talk very often or text which does wind me up. I feel we are both playing games with each ...

Is this man almost twice my age trying to get close to me? Ask me to move in with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

30 December 2015 (F) - Okay so I've just met a guy older than me.. (50 years old) and he owns his own business and we have been chatting for 3 weeks at most. He invited me out out 2 times already. The first time I was cautious and questioned him a lot (after all he is...

How can I deal with my co-worker crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3280 days ago

28 December 2015 (F) - I'm 18 years old, female and have a crush on my supervisor who is 32, also a female and married. I have had several boyfriends over the years and slept with 5 men in total - never had any feeling for any women until I started my new j...

Just online friends? But then he restarted being flirty. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3274 days ago

27 December 2015 (F) - This is really very confusing but please bear with me. There is this guy who I have been chatting to for over 6 months, he is like my best friend but we have never met (we have discussed it, just not really gotten to it as I live 2 hours away by ...

Is it ok to date someone 15 years younger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3286 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Is it really ok for a 48 year old (me-female) to go out with a 32 year old (mature/sensible)guy? I don't have a big issue with age gaps but this seems quite a big gap. Is it doomed to end in disaster? I have two grown up daughters and he so far ...

My ex shut his heart against love but after 2 years apart I still want him back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3287 days ago

22 December 2015 (F) - Hi, I am 27 and I am only interested in men much older than me. There are certain qualities that I am looking for in a man that can only exist in older men. I hate young men and everything about them. Young men disgust me. I don't mind an age gap of ...

Why doesn't she want to see the xmas party photos?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3279 days ago

20 December 2015 (M) - I'm well over 50 and work with a lovely girl in her late 20s. We have always got along very well but due to the age gap and personal circumstances I've never made a pass at her and never would. I'm married and she has a long term boyfriend, who she ...

He's being generous but I don't feel I can accept his gifts and money!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

15 December 2015 (F) - I met a guy about 6 months ago. I'm 23 and I work as a bartender while going to school. He is a lot older then me (he's 38). He came into the bar I work one night with some friends and we ended up chatting. He came in the following night and asked ...

Is he worth the chance or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

13 December 2015 (F) - Hi all. Would it work? The guy I'm about to date is 42 years old with 4 kids and still stay with his parents. I'm 35 with no kid and own my own house. All I want to know is if this guy, is he worth a try to maybe have a successful relationship as ...

Our relationship doesn't seem to be progressing much, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

11 December 2015 (F) - My partner of nearly five months is very generous and caring but the niggle i have is that he wont accept me as a friend on facebook and will not stay the night at my house. His ex is a friend on fb and i wonder if he doesnt want her to know he has ...

What to do? This amazing guy, perhaps my soul mate, just walked out of my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3303 days ago

5 December 2015 (F) - Good evening, morning, afternoon, wherever you are in the world reading this :) A special message to 'wise owl', I always value your advice to other posters, so would appreciate if you have time to give this a read :) I am after some genuine adv...

Is he too young for me? What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

4 December 2015 (F) - im 31 and there is this guy who is 26, everytime i go into the store, he keeps flirting with me to the point that my bro thinks he will ask me out soon and a customer asked me was I his girlfriend…..the guy is a store manager at a grocery store…...

How do I get this married man out of my head?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3294 days ago

3 December 2015 (F) - I have posted a few times about this situation. I have fallen for a married man. I don't want to feel a thing for him. Let me be clear I have never allowed us to cross the line. I have tried to avoid him, but down to his work this is impossible. S...

Hes 42 and I'm 27, should I care what people say/

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

2 December 2015 (F) - I am a 27 year old single woman with no children. Over the holiday weekend I went out with friends from college, and met a 42 year old man. We exchanged phone numbers and have been talking ever since. He has told me a lot about himself and his ...