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Is he worth the chance or should I move on?

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Question - (13 December 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2015)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi all. Would it work? The guy I'm about to date is 42 years old with 4 kids and still stay with his parents. I'm 35 with no kid and own my own house. All I want to know is if this guy, is he worth a try to maybe have a successful relationship as I'm searching for someone to get married to and start a family as my biological clock is no longer on my side.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2015):

I dated a guy with two children. What I first didn't realise was it meant taking them on emotionally and financially.

At Christmas and birthdays I treated them as if they were my family. They visited me in my home and I blended into their lives. I entered into a ready made family.

It was tiring and stressful and I would not recommend it. Lovely children and great guy too but I found it hard being so far down the list before I had even started.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (13 December 2015):

Ciar agony auntFor some it does work, but my personal opinion...if this were me...the four kids is enough for me to move on. Living with his parents is not really a good sign, but it would depend on why and what sort of person he is, how his life is going besides that.

Four children is a lot of responsibility and if you're hoping to have your own, you'll both have your hands full.

Just my opinion.

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