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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's younger and broke!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - Hey, I'm 25 years old and I am currently in grad school. I met this guy a year ago, because he worked at the restaurant across from my job and he delivered my food. We also have a mutual friend. We never talked then because he had a gir...

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her ...

I am 43 and I would like to have a baby.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I am 43 and would like to have a baby for the first time. I was married for 15 years but didn't try for a baby because my ex husband didn't want one. Since we divorced 5 years ago I hadn't met anyone with whom I could imagine having a child and ...

I have a crush on my dentist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hello, this is quite embarassing but... I'm 30 and some months ago I started developing a crush on my dentist, which is 20 years older than me! He is handsome and kind, also he looks younger but I have never felt attracted by older men before...

20 year age gap. I like his mind. Shoud I pursue this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi Agony people, I'm in my mid twenties and have feelings for an older man. I dont find him beautiful or a sex bomb. I love the way he thinks and uses his mind. He is similar to me in this way. His career or lifestyle doesnt factor into...

Was making light of it and ignoring how much it hurt me the right action? His comments about beautiful women upset me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend sent me a text today saying "I wish I could have sent you a pic of the women that just left my job , holy crap I think she was a pole dancer hahaha with 2 kids" I have to be honest this hurt my feelings because I have low self esteem a...

How do I stop myself falling for an older married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Please don't judge me on this, but I'm falling for an older married man. I see everyday and can't avoid him (tried not possible). At first I noticed him watching me all the time, then he would offer to help me out all the time which I admit al...

I need my fiance to grow up because I have to tell him I'm pregnant!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - My fiancee keeps changing his mind about what he wants, and whether he wants our wedding to go ahead, and now I'm pregnant I'm scared he will say he isn't sure if he wants a family. I'm just so confused by his behaviour and I need some advice on how ...

I'm a freshman, he's a senior, I'm pregnant! How' do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

16 April 2015 (F) - I'm a freshman in college, and about a month ago I met this guy who's a senior. We hit it off instantly, and after about two weeks of messaging and occasionally hanging out, I went to his room one night and we ended up hooking up. I was a virgin ...

Why does this older guy ignore me after knowing how I feel for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Hello there! well I'm 18 years old girl ,studying in college English honours.I'm an artist as well as I'm an independent singer/song writer. I'm in love with a person since two years who is 26 years old. He's my friend's cousin brother. Ofcours...

Older guy at work keeps flirting with me and it's unwanted - should I tell him off or ignore him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - I know this is long but please read, I'm in my first "proper" job and its annoying me. I'm 21 and in my current temp job till the end of May. I really enjoy the workplace though I am the youngest person there by about a decade, and I get on well ...

Boyfriend told me his brother is cheating - and now I think my boyfriend is too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

12 April 2015 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles of Dear Cupid, I hope someone can advise me on what to do here. I've been seeing an older man since early November last year. He will be 50 later this year. I am 40. Early days and we have been taking things fairly s...

There is an eleven year age gap!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

12 April 2015 (M) - In December last year I met a girl standing in line at a fast food place, I was standing behind her. When it was her turn to pay, turns out she forgot her money in the car. I saw this and offered to pay. After I had payed, she thanked me over and ...

Everything seemed fine, but now the woman I've been dating is giving me the cold shoulder! Why would she act like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

11 April 2015 (M) - So I met this women at a bar back in January. I got her number and started texting each other. She did most of the texting at first. We texted every day until I finally got to meet her in person in February. Everything was great. We really connected ...

Is there nothing wrong with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

11 April 2015 (F) - Is there nothing wrong with this guy? After many men, have to admit, majority of them were not very pleasant experiences with lying, cheating, disrespect, trying to use me solely for sex, ignoring my feelings and putting me through hell, I ...

Am I wrong for wanting to know if she enjoyed it and if he wore a condom?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

9 April 2015 (M) - I have a 27 year old girlfriend of 3 years and we have recently been having some issues in regards to spending time together. She has been spending a lot of time with a co-worker (going out, going to his place but just as friends as she claims). ...

I'm 15 dating a 21 year old and don't know how to tell my parents

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

9 April 2015 (F) - I'm 15 and my boyfriend recently turned 21 I'll be turning 16 in june, my brothers 18 and he and the rest of my siblings and cousins are okay with it, weve been dating 7months yesterday and im really happy....but i really want to tell my parents but ...

What can I do about my husband's infatuation and his need to talk, all the time, about a girl he works with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - I am so frustrated with my husband! We have been married ten years but together for 15. I thought things were really good we have a child both have good jobs and holidays. Right now we are on a family holiday. My husband keeps bringing a girl up ...

Sharing and Caring? A time for advice that is empathic, not judgemental? Some notable differences I've noticed that have saddened me. Can this be addressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - This is not really a question as it is a suggestion for this site that I would like to share. I've been visiting this site on and off periodically for several years. And because my visits here are intermittent and sporadic, I never made my own prof...

Gf didn't want me to attend my work function. Am I not allowed a break? This isn't about girls...this is about a little freedom

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

3 April 2015 (M) - Is this normal? I have been in relationship for two years and we both had tough financial times but things are looking up. We do not live together yet. I found myself a new job, and after two weeks of declining to join work crew for drinks I f...

I am his client, what are his intentions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3510 days ago

3 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm looking for advice about a man who I know professionally. Well I'm his client tbh. He is always helping me out some his job and others above and beyond. As part of his job he needs to do home visits sometimes and always comes alone but ...

We're on a roller coaster and I want to get off

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3511 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I read this site often and am always struck by how great the Agony Aunts/Uncles are in giving out advice. It always done with common sense, compassion and empathy and no judgment. I hope you can give me some advice too, as I need t...

Communal family living? My husband wants to buy a bigger home so his family can move in. How can I persuade him to not do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

2 April 2015 (F) - my husband wants to buy a house big enough for us to move into, and move the in laws in with us. Trouble is I most definitely do not want this! although he wont hear of anything otherwise. We are in our 20's, we have 3 young children. his pa...

Could my actions towards this student be mis-construed? Do my actions constitute me ''leading this student on''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

2 April 2015 (M) - I am a senior lecturer in a university. I have never though of myself as good looking or anything special. I think I am good at my job, however I will let the reader judge. Recently, one of my students told me she liked me. She is beautiful, alway...