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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

In order to be with him I've been lying to my family.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - hi im 18 and my boyfriend is 35. i have not.told.my.parents yet as they do not like the idea of age diffrrences when.it comes to relationships. ive never been with an.older man before so when my parents found out for the first time they freake...

Should I keep the a fantasy or should I take things to the next level?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - I'm obsessed with this woman i met(im in freshman university). We were both MCs(hosts) for a large concert/show, but i did not know her before the show. She was a much more experienced MC(with a university degree and MCed a lot of big shows) than I ...

I'm not sure what this older co-worker's take is on me. I'm attracted to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I have a crush on a co-woker who is ten years older. I noticed that he treats me differently than my other female colleagues and it could be for bajillion different reasons. I was just wondering if someone had any ideas. Different how? Well, for s...

He makes no effort to contact me and its now been 2 weeks. What do I say if he contacts me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I'm in my early 20s and have been seeing a 31 yo man on and off for the past year and a half. I was a little wary at first about even meeting him from an online dating website because he might be looking for something serious (ie a wife). But, I ...

Fallen in love with my teacher. What should I do? She looks at me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - i am 13 year old girl and have fallen in love with my new german teacher ( she is female) i think she knows because in an asemberly all my frends said she was looking at me and when me and my freinds and i were sat out side and she kept lookin at us ...

I'm confused by the way he's acting, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I'll give you a basic run down of my situation, I'm 18 and the guy im going out with is about 30 or so. I know some people would find an issue there, but that's not the problem. We've been seeing each other for about 6 months now but ...

I love my boss and want to tell her that

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - I am in a problem. I really madly deeply truly seriously fall in love with my boss. She knows that thing. She is beautiful, cute. Whenever she passes me there I can feel the wind of Love. The problem is She is 43, unmarried and I am 25 un...

I feel like he's my only hope but hes talking like we wouldn't last together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 years old and have been seeing this guy who is 9 years older than me. He lives in the same neighborhood and i've known him for a year as friends. Recently we've been hanging out together even more. We go for movies and long drives. I'm ...

What should I do or do nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

20 July 2012 (F) - well i met this guy on line back in march of 2012 and thought he was the cutest guy i ever saw in my life i'll be honest. he lived in harlem n.y and i live in jackson t.n we both connected because we both made music and networked all the time ...

BF says causal comments that HURT, please share your thoughts on these things he's said to me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

19 July 2012 (F) - i am dating a very young guy..25..im much older but we have had a really cool connection, trust, closeness, amazing physical relationship. not for a long time, but for this summer. as i have began to fall for him, i have found myself repeatedly ...

What would be positive signs that he's interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - I work with a man 10 years younger than myself, and, over time, have become attracted to him. I get the feeling he is interested as well. I have seen him watching me every now and then, he'll find me working somewhere and start chatting away, ...

Does this married older woman want to sleep with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (M) - Ok im 21 and i work in an office with only one other male, all the rest are female. There is one woman in the office who is constantly flirting with me and complimenting me--and i mean outrageously. At a recent night out too she stayed with me all ...

How do I get rid of my younger lover without a scene? He's helped me in the past but now I'm sick of him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F) - I am an older lady who has always had men who worked and helped with most bills. I have been widowed 4 times; what a drag!!! I met a younger guy online and he eventually moved in with me. All was well at first; he quit his job where he prev...

My peers pick on me for not dating in my age group, but I'm only attracted to older men/

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - So I'm seventeen(Will be eighteen in a few months) and I am not at all attracted to guys my age. I only have crushes on men thirty and older. I have accepted this by now whether it because I have "daddy issues" as someone once told me or not. The ...

I'm thinking about moving there to be with him, is it possible with this age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) - Hi.. First thing excuses for my English. I will try to explain myself the best I can. I been separated for one year and a half. We didnt divorced yet. I live alone and have my own/independent life so I started to meet people here and there. ...

In love with my best friend's engaged brother

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. I am in love with my best friends brother and he likes me too. He has a fiance and a 2 year old son. I have felt like this about him since 3rd grade and i am going to be a senior. He has felt this way about me for the same ...

What can a 33 year old man possibly see in a 66 year old woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I am a healthy, attractive 66 year old female who is being ardently courted by a very handsome 33 year old male. That is a big age gap! What can this man possibly see in me?...

I lied about my real age online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

8 July 2012 (F) - I met a man online a year ago and we became friends ,he's 40 and im 58 but i never told him that.I never thought we would continue to talk so what did it matter.Well the unthinkable happened ,we fell in love ... he is single and so am i .He is the ...

Do you think that he is prolonging this because I know she filed but he was supposed to pay her attorney. or do you think that I'm just being paranoid.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) - hi im 24 years old and i have a 3 year old girl, i fell in love with a man that is 48. when we met at work i did not know he was married until 2 weeks after we started talking. his wife found out about the both of us and called and told me to get ...

I want my parents to accept my 34 year old boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a good several months now. I was over his place today and he was talking about meeting my parents. He never gave a specific date or anything but he was talking about doing it at some point. I just get worr...

We had sex then he deleted me from Facebook

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

3 July 2012 (F) - This guy I met last weekend, he's 25, 26 next month and I'm 18. We were getting on well. The next night I went to his but the thing is I was really shy and just blamed it on being tired. Anyways, we had sex. I know I shouldn't of but it just ...

I've fallen in love with my friend! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4555 days ago

3 July 2012 (F) - Hey, so yes i've done the thing i have heard about soo many times, fallen in love with a friend. i am head over heals just think about him 24.7. would like to ask what i should do? we are both sikh, different caste (problem) he is 28 I am 22 this ...

She's 9 years older than me. Could it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M) - So there is this chick at work that I like a lot and I think she likes me as well but she's about 9 years older than me and I'm not sure if it can work due to the age difference like we get along great always have something to talk about and it is ...