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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I can't get over the fear he will leave me for someone younger.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - Hi! I am 39 yrs old and my bf is 22. Among the all the suitors I had, he had been the most determined that's the reason I chose him. I know someday he will be leaving me for a much younger lady. This fear keeps haunting me every time I look at him. ...

How do you "fight in a loving way" with your significant other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a burning question that I am starting to think that sabotages my relationships. How do you fight with your significant other? I'm trying to learn from the past and some advice that I read in the past as well but I don't think I'm...

I'm 24 years older than him but am so attracted to him! What do I do about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

22 August 2012 (F) - OK this is a question that I hope all you male readers out there will chime in on, as I need a man's perspective. I am a 54 year old woman, routinely told I look at least 10 years younger. I keep my hair colored, exercise every day, try not to dress ...

Is it normal that I have these feelings for a man 26 years older than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

22 August 2012 (?) - There is a 46 year old man working where I work (he's in charge of maintainance) and I am a 20 year old "secretary"... I am pretty attracted to this man and I feel abnormal, strange and guilty. He's quite handsome but I'm very shy so I never ...

His feelings are "complicated," and I'm heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4505 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - His feelings are "complicated," and I'm heartbroken. What should I do? I dated an older guy for 6 months. I'm 38; he's 60. He told me we were made for each other and he didn’t know sex could be as special as it was with me. He sent sweet text ...

Young Woman attracted to a man over twice her age or just really fiendly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

21 August 2012 (M) - I'm a mid 40's guy who works in the IT sector. Most days I have been going to the same local Subway for lunch over the last 6 to 8 months. There is this young chinese girl who looks about 17 or 18 and I think is interested in me. I say "think" ...

Nervous about hooking up with older guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - Hello. I posted a rather long question a few weeks ago about how to handle a newly growing friendship with a former teacher of mine (I'm 18 and he's 31) and since then there have been developments. He's a very sweet guy, I really trust him and we...

I am heartbroken by his lack of communication. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been separated for four years and are currently going through a divorce, which will be complete about a month from now. We were separated so long because I was waiting for him to turn 65. He was on my health insurance, and he ...

Kiss and run! What's up with this younger guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - Hey. I am SO confused right now. I met Jay on a work training course, he is 13yrs younger than me. We hit it off, all was good until he walked me to my car, we spent over an hour kissing. He followed it up with a text straight away saying 'wow that ...

I don't want to move but I don't want to deny my mom better chances either! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

19 August 2012 (M) - hey every one recently my mother has decided that she is going to move away and its my choice if we do or not im very confused and angry that she put this on me i want to go i really do but i find it hard and scary about a place i have never seen ...

I met an older guy, I told him I'd call him and I didn't now he is ignoring me, Should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - Ive been spending a lot of time with my parents. While on one of our outings, I met a guy. He is a little older than me. I am 23 and he is probably in his mid-late 30s. The first occasion, he asked me for my name. The second time, he actually...

Why does he give me mixed signals? Is it now time to give up all hope of connecting with the Teacher I loved as a teen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

19 August 2012 (F) - Nearly ten years ago I had a teacher that I fell head over heels for. He was only 5 or so years older than me and single. I was a pretty obnoxious teenager and I made my feelings known to him, and he rebuffed me (rightly so). However, he'd also ma...

Large age-gap relationships: your experiences and thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - Dear all, this is not so much a question per se, would just love to hear some of your experiences. In my case, we have a 19 year gap, we're compatible in interests, worldview, living styles (both quiet, stay at home types), but I've also considered ...

We met on facebook and have been dating, but he lied to me. Turns out he's much younger, under 16. I love him but is this OK?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

17 August 2012 (F) - Hey everyone So I met a guy on Facebook, I totally regret it now. We've been dating for a while now and we met in person, my mum and my grandma went with me on our first date and they met his parent too. I fell in love with him, and he told me h...

Did his feelings for me really change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

15 August 2012 (F) - I never thought I'd be one to seek out help from strangers but my current situation is tearing me apart by the minute and it's only been about 4 days. I've been seeing someone (romantically) for about 4 months but we've been getting to know ...

He is 32 and I am 22. He flirts with me, a lot. Am I being played or is he trying to see what happens first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4500 days ago

13 August 2012 (F) - I have become attracted to someone and I know at least the physical aspect is mutual but I'm not sure of his intentions. He had a bad experience with another woman a few months ago and I just broke up with my boyfriend recently. I know neither one...

Can a relationship have no physical closeness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4514 days ago

12 August 2012 (F) - I am not so sure what is going on. I am 23 years old. I have been seeing a man who is 11 years older than I am. We have been frequently seeing each other for almost 2 months now. Usually they are overnight visits, (sex is not always the outcome). We ...

Is he having a mid-life crisis? Is this not love?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

8 August 2012 (F) - Because What would a man his age want with a woman like this? Ok well my Ex and I we are split up for about 5 months . We still tells me about his life , and for the past 3 months he is constantly talking about his friend he met for the first time ...

Why am I fantasizing about a much older man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

6 August 2012 (F) - I am a 22 year-old college student and I have always been attracted to older men (50+). My oldest crush was 56 but I have been fantasizing about one of my professors this year who is 65! Isn't that crazy? The funny thing is that he is not even ...

I'm 25 while he's in his 40s'. Is dating someone so much older really a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

5 August 2012 (F) - I am 25 years old and I work with an older man in his 40s. He sits in the cubicle behind me and another girl. The three of us always chatted and had silly conversations. I'd always greet him in the mornings and speak with him. We'd go out for coffee ...

My first relationship: Am I dating him? Or was it just about sex? Nine years older than me and I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

5 August 2012 (F) - Hey! I've got my self into this 'relationship' with a guy but I do not know where I stand anymore! So basically a guy, 9 years my elder, who I've known for 2 years or so started talking to me more often since early June. After that I've been '...

He's 30 years older and I have a major crush on him. What can I do? He's a real gentleman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

4 August 2012 (F) - Hi folks! Im seriouslyhaving an emotional problem now and cant ask anyone I know, please help! Ive been recently spending a little time with a man who I think likes me..... the only problem is He's like 30 years older than me and I am starting to l...

My fiancé spends more time playing video games than with his family, and there's a bedroom issue too. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

3 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 29ys old. I've been with my fiance for 4yrs.He is 51 Both of us have been divorced and were very happy to find each other though it was unexpected. Here is my dilemma.I think he's changing. I've talked to him over and over till I'm blue...

Advantages and disadvantages of dating a younger man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

1 August 2012 (F) - Ladies, what do you think about dating a younger man? One of my friends recently broke up with her ex and began dating her current boyfriend one month later. He ex is 1 year younger than her and her boyfriend is 2 years younger than her. I know the ...