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writes:Hi folks!Im seriouslyhaving an emotional problem now and cant ask anyone I know, please help!Ive been recently spending a little time with a man who I think likes me..... the only problem is He's like 30 years older than me and I am starting to like him a lot. Sob. He recently gave me a jacket he owned for 20 years that he thought I would like, I pretended it meant nothing, but cuddled with it all night. Im not sure what to do, I cant make any moves, that would be improper, and he's too much of a gentlman to do anything... Any advice?Help!
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reader, Gwydion  +, writes (4 August 2012):
As long as you're sure he's available, then just enjoy each day as it comes, as you would any other relationship. Why would making "moves" be improper? I don't mean throwing yourself at him but showing some interest in return, if you do have feelings for him.
That said, do take it slow if you're not sure that he's actually interested in you or just being friendly. It can be very hard to differentiate when you're crushing on him. Never rush relationships, difficult as it is.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (4 August 2012):
 What do you want to know? Go ahead and see him - and see what happens. Well, I'm also much older and have been with much younger women, so I may be very bias, but I think that age is meaningless as long as there is caring, sharing, love and enjoyment. However, make certain that he is unattached and let him guide the relationship.
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