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Archived questions from: March, 2017 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I slept with my business partner. Have I lost him as a friend? now he does not even reply to texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

31 March 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - I made the stupidest mistake in getting reluctantly involved with a married man. We made love and after sex after that fatal night he stopped talking to me then he said he was just wanted to be friends. I was okay with that being business partners now he won't even retur... (93 words)

How do I let go of my long lost love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

31 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to start, but writing (even though I suck at it) is my only escape from reality. I was in love with someone back in 2008-2011. He really was amazing, he did everything I wanted to do and made me feel like I was something special. Something I hadn't... (356 words)

My partners family are ruining our relationship and I don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

31 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just looking for some advice please My partners family are ruining our relationship and I don't know what to do. Background info- we've been together 2 years, live together (against their wishes). I'm 25 and he's 26. I have never given them a reason to dislike me, bar... (705 words)

If he didn't care about anything with me, why would he stop talking to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

31 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - This one is complicated. I've had a thing for one of my guy friends for almost three years. I admitted my feelings to him before heading out of town to visit family at Christmas. He said he was flattered but into someone else. I understood and didn't push it. Fast forward ... (269 words)

I'm very happy in my relationship but why do I suddenly want to contact my abusive ex to tell him how awful he was to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

31 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 16-18 I dated an emotionally and physically abusive man who was a little older than me. My first time was with him and it wasn't something I wanted, but we were somehow together for a couple years. When it ended, it didn't properly end. . . he sent me letters every ... (262 words)

How can I strike up a conversation with a boy I have a massive crush on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - What are some ways to approach and start a conversation with a boy you like without showing you like them? I'm a very shy person and I don't know how to approach a boy I have had a crush on for two years. I'm really emotionally attached to him and I feel automatically comforted ... (180 words)

Feeling low in my life and I have no friends to share my problems or to spend time with..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Everyone always says it hard to keep in touch with friends from school. And they are right.. I left school with a group of 6-10 friends... and now I hardly talk to any of them. We all parted different ways to live our own lives in the direction we wanted to go. I found I wa... (160 words)

I'm ok with my sexless relationship but my friends think it's weird

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there , I have been with my partner a year and a half yet in all that time we have only had sex 10 times we cuddle kiss hold hands but nothing more he was honest from the start and said he wasn't very sexual, this is ok with me however my friends seem to think its weird I ... (97 words)

Her parents insist we don't talk for 5 years! They disapprove of our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - I had been in in relationship with my girlfriend for 7 months. She's 18 and I'm 17.We just so in love with each other. We chatted all day, we share our everyday life ,topics and stories. We greet each other good morning and first thing in the morning and say goodnight together ... (501 words)

Torn between two and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 28 and my boyfriend Brad is 31. I work in healthcare and he is formwr military that has a good job. He and I have been dating for five years and it has been very, very rough kn those five years. We started as fwb and I saw other people. Right before I called it off, he ... (953 words)

My ex said he wanted us to be together. A week later he said he didn't mean it like that. I'm angry and confused.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - He’s 28, I’m 27. We were together 4 years and he left me 6 months ago. He's now in a relationship an 18 year old. He’s kept in touch with me all the time since our break up (always him initiating). Last week he told me he misses me and that he knows he’d want us to be togethe... (576 words)

My mother has blocked contact can I get visitation rights to see my sisters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, idk how to start. Recently about a month ago my Mothers husband and I got into a disagreement because he yelled at my sister which is not his daughter and as always I defended . well my mom took his side and blocked me on Facebook and forced my sisters to block me on ... (78 words)

Getting my love's past behavior out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2790 days ago

30 March 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear agony aunt, Please bear with me – my story might be a little long. But to make it short I work as an expat in a foreign country. I’m in my early thirties and about six months ago I met women who is 7 years my senior (also an expat, albeit from a different continen... (554 words)

Engaged, had an affair, new person cheated, yearrrrrs ago... now married w/ pregnant wife and I can't deal with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, hope you are all doing well. It's been a while since I last posted, but I am having some major issues right now. Here it goes, I guess... Back in 2008 I was in a pretty verbally/physically abusive relationship (about 7 years in at the time). During this time... (556 words)

I have a chance of a full time job but feel guilty about leaving my supervisor in the lurch!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess this is sort of a work relationship question. Basically I currently have a part time job where I work 6 hours a day, 5 days a week. However, due to the first quarter of the year being our slowest time,I've now been cut down to 5 hours a day, 3 days a week. Needless t... (648 words)

We still see each other and its just like before, but without the romance. Is there any hope for us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, I've never written on here before but I kind of have ran out of options. A little over two months ago, I was placed in an art class at my high school. I noticed a guy in the class who I had never seen before in school, he was very attractive and I immediat... (533 words)

My wife is still trying to contact the guy she had an affair with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

30 March 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - What is going on with my wife? She had an affair with another guy that we both know, and I only found out about it after more than a year and a half..before the start of her affair we argued and fought alot ,but at one point for no apparent reason she almost totally stopped ... (204 words)

He wants us to get married but to keep it secret!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

30 March 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here is my story. My boyfriend of 7 months is asking me to marry him secretly in summer and not telling anyone because he wants to give his 14 years old child enough time to feel more comfortable. we want to buy a house as I don't want to move to his current house and he ... (225 words)

Does my boyfriend have commitment issues? He won't change his address

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

29 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year, but he hasn't changed his address with the post office. He is still picking up mail at his parents house. We moved in together June 2016. Last weekend I mentioned it and he said, "that way when you kick me to th... (183 words)

We booked a weekend away to save our relationship and he wants to play soccer! Am I selfish? Am I not a priority to him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

29 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having fighting almost non-stop for the last 3 weeks with things being hard since the new year. Every time we make up and promise not to fight, we do it again. We have been together almost 2 years and been through soooooo much - he lives at home and ... (326 words)

Is he a commitment-phobe? Is there still a chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2773 days ago

29 March 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I'm a 39 yr old female who was dating a 38year old male. We dated for four and a half months and he broke up with me almost a week ago. I was on the verge of suggesting we take a break but he beat me to the punch. Sex was enjoyable except he never performed oral... (923 words)

Is it a good idea to meet up with my ex when I'm confused about my own emotions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

29 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm completely single, and have been for about a year. My ex recently contacted me and wanted to meet up sometime. We broke up on good terms and we're not necessarily friends but I'm not sure of what his intentions are. I still really care about him, but not sure if ... (123 words)

I'm becoming close with my best friend's hubby's best friend! Is there something there or is this wrecking a friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

29 March 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I've becomever very close with my best friends hubbys bestfriend. We hang out all the time and he stays at my house most nights or I'm at his.(unfortunate event car accident and he's got to vehicle)people think we are dating but we are "just friends" when he's drunk he's flirty ... (83 words)

I'm in a sexless marriage due to my wife's depression and now menopause. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2769 days ago

28 March 2017 (M)

age - My wife had 10 months off work with work related depression now the menopause has struck We have not had sex for nearly 2 years and even sleep in different rooms at times as she is in bed by 9pm most nights due to the medication. I am now becoming more frustrated and p... (138 words)

Am I shallow for not wanting to have sex with her because she has herpes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

28 March 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend of around two years whom I am very close to, we were considering a relationship but due to the distance between us and financial difficulties on both ends we decided to just stay as friends for the foreseeable future. Despite this, we do have an intimate onli... (288 words)

Should I tell her that on our break I paid for sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

28 March 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my and my gf of 5 years have sort of had a bit of distance come between us, on my end mainly. She was always so insecure and sort of clingy and although I loved her it chipped away at me and I felt I needed space. We took space and things were going well and then one night ... (151 words)

Was I being used, by her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

28 March 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating a girl for 5 weeks – I felt there was something special there and every time we met there was always at least one point where we both laughed so hard we were crying. We even had cute pet names for each other (I called her peach). So basically I need some advice t... (1167 words)

Should I try online dating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

28 March 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - As a male virgin who's never been on a date, never kissed a girl, and never had a girlfriend, I've been thinking a lot lately about trying online dating. I've never been competent at approaching women, it always results in rejection. In the past I've thought about paying for... (227 words)

Sex isn't going well with her, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

28 March 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for the last few weeks. We have had sex twice, and both times there were problems. I have had a problem maintaining an erection during sex. When I do have one and enter her; She is so tight it hurts me when I have sex. To add to ... (75 words)

I ratted out my friends for cheating. Did I do the wrong thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

28 March 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in college and recently we had our finals exam for calculus, I studied my absolute hardest and I know I still get didn't enough right answers to pass, after the exam I find out that some of my classmates were using a facebook group chat to share answers during the exam. I ... (118 words)

Girlfriend doesn't make any real effort to lose weight despite wanting to

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2770 days ago

28 March 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. I liked her for her personality and character but her weight had always bothered me right from the start. She was actually slim just under 2 year back(she looked amazing) but gained about 15kg since then.... (350 words)

My girlfriend's insecurity is chipping away at our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

28 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am having some serious issues in my relationship and I don't know how to deal with them. I am coming here for some much needed perspective. To start, I'm a gay female. 33 years old. My girlfriend is 27. We have what I would normally consider a healthy relationship by ... (1014 words)

I like him but he doesn't stimulate me. Should I try again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

28 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am under a lot of pressure by parents to get married, culturally, I'm old, 30. And my parents really care about whay others think. Anyways, I met a guy online. Sweet, untrustworthy guy, which is hard to find in a world full of untrustworthy people tha... (490 words)

How do I help my girlfriend? She seems to be very depressed but won't seek help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm worried about my girlfriend, I think she might be depressed but she refuses to talk to anyone other than me about it and even then I have to really try in order to get her to tell me how she's feeling. She keeps talking about how she doesn't have any passion for anyt... (188 words)

I love her, I like her personality, and we've dated for 4 years in a LDR, but I have mixed feelings. Can I come to terms with the fact that she is hairy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with this girl for almost 4 years by now, and according to how everything has proceeded (education/financial etc) it's time for making the advance for marriage, as has always been our plan. We have not had sex (saving for marriage/cultural reasons/ also living i... (825 words)

Should I ask him how he feels now? Or wait a while before I ask?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a relationship issue and would love some advice! For the past nine months I have been in an ambiguous relationship with my housemate. We started sleeping together last summer. I knew he had fancied me for a while and he even started to suggest that some of the... (1484 words)

I feel trapped, I want him to move out but he has no money!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My boyfriend is 45 and we have been together for a few years. I am aware that he likes to drink and we have had some arguments about this and I have told him I respect his right to make his own choices but a life which focuses on alcohol is not for me. The prob... (311 words)

I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2672 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ogling younger women , ... (339 words)

Was he lying about his reasons for blocking me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating a guy and he was leaving on duty for a couple weeks. He lied to me about deleting social media, he actually ended up blocking me. When I caught him in his lie, he said anxiety and paranoia made him delete me, he thought I would stalk him. I'm not bashing anyone ... (72 words)

Do most guy friends behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - So for a few weeks I've had a crush on this guy that I see periodically at a social dance event. I have known him but not well for almost a year, but have recently started getting closer to him. We started getting closer once a previous relationship with someone else ended. ... (204 words)

How can I stop living in the past and stop worrying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2792 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, how does someone stop living in the past , it seems like my life is a contact worry, I can't escape my own "prison" I always worry about what other people think of me , constant non stop, whether it's a work, at home , with friends, I can't seem to relax. ... (214 words)

I am confused! Why didn't my professor call when I left her my number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in 4th year of Psychology school, and I am 23 years old. There's this older professor (a woman, in fact). She was married a few times (five, to be exact, all to men), there are rumors that she hooks up with students (not sure which sex), and they're basically confirmed (her ... (486 words)

How can I believe there is a good guy out there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I have given up on love- my whole life I'm in my early thirties now but I used to believe that there was a nice guy out there and that if ur a genuine person that will be rewarded. I'm 32 and I have completely lost faith in love - I've been with two men that hav... (207 words)

I've met the perfect guy but after getting back in contact with my ex I am confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been dating this seemingly perfect guy for the past couple of months and honestly the way he is with me and treats me is just perfect. I have a ‘check list’ of everything I want in a man he is everything and more BUT... Out of the blue my ex contacted me! I had a long ... (498 words)

My boyfriend thinks I've gone off him but we don't have a bed of our own!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

27 March 2017 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year now. We used to have sex and I used to make him excited but we recently moved in with my sister and her daughter so we share the living room. We have sex yeah but its not ideal considering its either on the floor or the couch. Most of ... (128 words)

I want more sex but he would rather masturbate to porn with young girls with boobs!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

26 March 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - We have lived together 2.5 years. I'm 44 with 2 grown up kids living at home, he is 40. He works 10.5 hour days with an extra hour on top for travelling and claims to be too tired for sex. We will usually have sex once a week, sometimes twice a week at weekends. He knows I ... (475 words)

How do I avoid blowing what could have been my best chance to date him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

26 March 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a very shy person when it comes to dating usually I meet people through friends so its not so bad. Recently I got chatting with a bloke and we arranged a date. We had our 2nd date this weekend. This date we had at his place and had a few drinks and chilled then i went home.... (283 words)

Am I just wasting my time with this older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2786 days ago

26 March 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - I've messed up. I was being flirted with in Oct 2015 - Dec 2015 by my then next door neighbours married son. I know things are rough at home. I wanted to help. Then he cut me off. I become an object for his brother to touch. It sent me round the bend. I fell for both. ... (266 words)

I'm dating someone new but don't think I'm over my ex. Should I let the new guy go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2782 days ago

26 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 28, In November I was dumped through whatsapp by my ex who I was madly in love with I was only with him for 4 months but I felt so much love for him after one month I got pregnant and had a n abortion and it totally messed me up as o didn't want to do it but he told me we ... (212 words)

Will men I date care about my living situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2762 days ago

26 March 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm single. I haven't dated in the dating market because My self esteem is so low and I always have ran to men that have been self centered and have taken me for granted - anyways I always have this issue of living at home- at the moment I am supporting my family member with ... (211 words)