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Archived questions from: 1 October, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My partner is afraid of my penis size... and her sister is a little too interested!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

1 October 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married over 3 years, love marriage, never did intercourse with my partner until married, knew her 6 years before marriage, we both want more of it but I have a 11.5inch n 5 inch fat, she is scared every time, I am ashamed of it, I haven't taken anything for enlargement, ... (76 words)

I'm having a tough time with being single. How can I stop feeling so lonely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2971 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have written here before and I'm having a difficult time being alone- I have realized the pat friends and boyfriends I have had have all been toxic but have filed some void. Lately I have tried to keep busy and be alone but it's driving me nuts- I desperately do not want to ... (210 words)

Seventeen, and my fear of rejection is so strong that I discourage guys when they make a move. How can I learn to trust myself and stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hiya I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend but have had "situations" that could have led to a relationship. Problem is I suck at opening up to guys. Well opening up to anybody in fact. Probably because rejection in any form terrifies me so I'd rather keep my true feeling ... (336 words)

How can I encourage and support a friend who is depressed? What words of encouragement can I say to my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - hey , quite a bit to read but i wanted to explain things in better detail . I have a new friend. Four weeks ive known them and they decided to tell me they suffer from bouts of depression and at the moment they are at a low point they have been to the doctors and are on medic... (397 words)

Criticized, humiliated and not loved and not appreciated. What do I need to do to get over this loveless marriage? I've put on weight and eventually my health will be affected.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

1 October 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I know I should be thankful for my marriage, home and trying to build up to a good life. But I have just woken up this morning and feel like maybe my marriage is just too hard to keep going. Mainly because our communication is terrible. I had hoped that we could have share... (1067 words)

I'm worried he's getting fed up with me! I think he wants perfection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a female, 24. My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years now. We were one of those couples who fell in love and got married soon without a big ceremony. We loved each other to bits. I still do. Last night he was at a friend's place and I cried because I missed ... (634 words)

How can I start talking with her, without coming off as desperate or creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

1 October 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - There's this girls I like. Or I should say really like. I've asked my friends what I should do, but the advice they give me keeps on contradicting what they're all saying, so instead, I'm asking a bunch of strangers for advice. What I need help with is this. I don't talk to her ... (88 words)

My future husband doesn't want to raise a family where I want raise a family. How can we reach middle ground and negotiate a solution?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I are the perfect match. We are contemplating marriage early next year which will take place in my families backyard in Atlanta. It will be a small, intimate wedding because we want to take the remaining funds we've saved up and monetary gi... (397 words)

I still have feelings for her. Should I keep in touch? She's about to marry another girl.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - So I need a little help. Last year around this time, I started seeing a girl. She was beautiful, smart, educated, sweet. All things I look for in a relationahip. Honestly nothing was really lacking and we were pretty great together. We dated for about four months and never fo... (621 words)

Is being called ''plain and simple'' a compliment?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Is being "Plain and Simple" a compliment? We were having dinner the other night and I asked my husband of over 20 years did it taste ok. I said its just plain food, meaning unprocessed. He said "Yes, Plain and Simple,just the way I like my women" I gave him a dirty look a... (137 words)

Cliques, gossip and cattyness. How can I stop negative people at work from bothering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a young professional who is working in a corporate corporate stable company. I have been working at my company for 6 months now and I seem to get caught up in the cliques and gossips triangles that my coworkers make and it's affecting my mood. I have to work directly wit... (224 words)

I lost the ring my wife purchased for me. She'll be very cross. What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 October 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife left for Paris last week, and instead of going to work, coming home to a lovely empty apartment and playing video games like I been doing, my brother convinced me to hang out with him for the night. When I got there all the boys were there, I even had a couple of my fr... (370 words)

Did I do something wrong? Once the pastor was friendly to me. Now he does not respond.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

1 October 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is a strange one so please bare with me. I have started going to a new Church and it has been great. I got on with the pastor from day one and he came out to visit me a few times. Chatted over FB ect. Then I went on a date last night and posted pictures of wher... (165 words)

But what should I do? Crushing for girl in my team. I don't want to be seen as a predator. Don't want to be called up by HR.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

1 October 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey. Where to begin. So I take over a team after moving from another department. Then there is this one lady who I start to really spark with. Don't get me wrong - the team I have are a wonderful bunch of people. But this one, she seems to stand out from them all. We have so... (287 words)