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Archived questions from: 18 October, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My Gf is not talking. Should I consider the relationship is over??? Or could I revive our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to keep the relationship but she won't reply to texts or take my calls. literally begged to her to talk, but she didn't respond. should I call this an end to this relationship? it's two days since we last talked. we recently fought over my laid back attitude in li... (136 words)

Should I follow my therapists advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Most recently I had dated a man for 8 months; we were introduced by friends and hit it off right away. He asked me to be exclusive right away which my therapist back then said it was weird since he didn't know anyone thing about me or had never been with me physically. Long s... (352 words)

Where to now? Is my married loved a narcissist? I feel I can no longer trust him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

18 October 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a year long affair with a married man. I am his tennant in the house that he rents out. He left his wife just before Christmas and came to live with me and my kids in the house. During our affair we had a secret bank accounts, and phone numbers that we would text e... (481 words)

She'd rather masturbate than have sex with me. Is there a way to resolve this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - A few months ago I bought house and decided to take the leap and move in with my girlfriend. Other than a few kinks things have been good but recently I've found out that she's been masterbsting on a regular basis instead of having sex with me. She claims sex is much easi... (213 words)

The girl I'm seeing has a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay where do I begin... I recently met this girl about 1 month ago she is very kind, beautiful and has feelings for me, she says she eventually wants to be more than friends and that she likes me. I looked her up on fb, being a former cop and turns out she is engaged to ... (135 words)

He blanked me for weeks then blows up because I was with some one else?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

18 October 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I was texting / meeting a guy (let's call him Fred, this isn't his name) and was seeing each other for about 9weeks.. Then for some reason he stopped talking to me. He said he had family issues and personal problems and can't give me what I want, he said he's not the type of ... (386 words)

I'm very close to my aunt, but recent incidents with my dog have caused upset and seem to have affected our relationship!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a family related problem, but I hope you can give me good advice or support. I have been close to my aunt, I almost grew up in her house and she has been at my side for many years. I have been supporting of her too, when I could. I had to move away for work, and it... (746 words)

My girlfriend says she's bored of sex and I'm fantasizing about other women. We're doomed, right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

18 October 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Mf gf said she is bored of sex yet I am the only one trying to be kinky or sexy in bed. It's doing my head in. Maybe I should be honest with her and tell her Ive been fantasizing about other women because you arent doing anything anymore. I have tried talking to her about how ... (84 words)

My whole world has revolved around finding a man and now at 32, I am desperate, hopeless and ashamed at how I've failed. Is there any hope for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My whole world revolves around a man and finding a man can someone help me see there is more to life than this- ever since I was 16 I have idealized that finding a man would somehow magically make all my problems go away. This thinking (childlike) lie has made me run into the ... (305 words)

My ex broke up with me, then texted me 2 months later that he still loved me, then said he didn't want to lead me on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

18 October 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. I've been dealing with it. The other day,out of the blue, he sent me a text message that said I love you. I felt that was not intended for me, so I called and told him that I think he sent the text to the wrong person. He told me that ... (182 words)