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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We broke up but I still think of him and miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 October 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a man for almost two years. We fought a lot and it wasn't the most heathy relationship. We've been broken up now since July and surprisingly, I'm having a hard time getting over him. I think of him often , laugh about the good times and really miss being intimate with ... (100 words)

If my boyfriend settles down will he someday resent me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 October 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never used one of these sites before but I have a question that's driving me crazy ill give a little background first I'm 25 and have been with my boyfriend 9 years weve been working and travelling for the last two years around Asia the south Pacific and Europe. We've be... (397 words)

Does prior promiscuity / lack of self care mean danger in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

3 October 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - So.... a couple meets on tinder. They like each other, go for "the test". Turns out person A has an STD but makes out like they were just "unlucky" to have contracted it. Person B accepts and tries to move forward confidently. Person B had a clean test around the time and ... (248 words)

We had our ups and downs should I go back to my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 October 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex is recently single and I miss him a lot. Should I go back? Weve had ups and downs when we were together but the sex was off the charts amazing and hot and everything you can imagine. We use to laugh a lot but our relationship was def more fwb and not dating. Its been... (255 words)

Girlfriend diagnosed with bipolar disorder! Break up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

3 October 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for a year and recently she found out she has bipolar disorder. Now I understand why she has always been hot and cold with me, I'm thinking about breaking up as I'm not happy anymore. She' taking BP medications but I think she forgets sometime... (193 words)

How do I make my cousin love me back?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2870 days ago

3 October 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey guys and girls im 14 year old and im 9th grade i love my girl cousin and she lives in another country so only 3 times i saw her 2006 2011 2016 so this year i loved her so much and we had really really good times but she went to her country back so i dont know if she accepts ... (194 words)

My dad is in an abusive relationship and I don't know what to do.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

3 October 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pretty sure my dad is in a psychologically abusive relationship (as far as I'm aware of) and I don't know what to do. He has been with her for 15 years. They met when I was already an adult, off at college 1500 miles away so I've had minimal interaction with them except for ... (542 words)

I'd like to ask this older lady out but don't want to lose our friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 October 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 23 and she is 37! We first meet each other in a social website and after we exchanged some messages and chat we agreed to see each other as friends, not for a dating purpose. I found her very attractive and nice but it has taken some time for us to reconnect and for her ... (265 words)

How do I slow things down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 October 2016 (F)

age - After only 4 dates, but numerous messages and phone calls, we slept together. Everything is just SO perfect. This guy is truly amazing! I'm 54 years old, and feel like a love sick teenager, I'm falling for him, although trying to hold back and slow things down. I know it's all ... (91 words)

Is it normal that he's always hard around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 October 2016 (F) age 26-29 - He loves me and has proven that to me so many times through his actions. I have no doubt in my heart that we connect very well. I wrote a post here before about my boyfriend not taking me out or do special things for me. We spoke about it and he has responded very well now I am ... (188 words)

Am I over-reacting to their friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

3 October 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm looking for some advice regarding a guy. I'm seeing this guy for 6 months now. We both are in our early 40's, and it's going well, he's honest, tansparent. However, I'm struggling with a few things, and I'm wondering am I over reacting! He is friendly with a girl 33 ... (411 words)