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writes:Hello. I'm not sure why I am having dreams about another man. I am in a happy relationship and I am 20 years old. I occasionally have dreams about being with a different man emotionally and physically though. Aht surprises me is that the man in my dream is an English professor in my current college. I had no attraction toward him until maybe the end of the quarter but I maxe myself forget about it. He was young, around 25 to 30. In my dreams however, he acts very different than how he is in person. Very persistent and sexual. I had some dreams in the past about him but this one is different. I actually left my boyfriend for him in this one. Then this professor, this man became my lover but at the same time still a professor. In the dream, he helped me with a class assignment and acted casually but after that, we went out in the hallway and made out which led to sex later on. I don't know what to do about these dreams. Sometimes I have dreams about him but it is rare and shocking. Is he the focus of a wet dream or do I have hidden feelings for him? I don't want to tell my boyfriend about these dreams because he'll just tell me to forget about them and that's what I am trying to do. I just want to figure out why they're about that professor. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 July 2016):
 Go figure :).
There are dozen of ways to interpret dreams, ... Freudian, Jungian,mythological, old wives ' wisdom... etc. and they are all guesses anyway.
By and large, my guess is that whatever energies you repress during the day, may come up unfettered at night.
You might have felt a surge of involuntary sexual energy for this guy ( hormons are not ethical, or politically correct ) and it popped up when you were asleep and your guard was down.
But at the end of the day, dreams are just dreams, no need to overanalyze things ( unless you are seeing a psychoanalist and paying him 200 a pop precisely for doing that ).
I am still trying to figure out a shockingly sexual dream I had many many years ago, involving doing very X- rated stuff... with the goalie of the Italian national soccer team.
Now, I don't follow soccer , I don't like it, and soccer players are just the kind of muscly tacky sweaty uncouth young brutes I would not touch with a ten feet pole
( ok, not all. Mr. Beckham seems a nice guy :).
My conscious preference always went to well mannered , highly educated, slim or even thin ,slightly metrosexual kind of men.
That at daytime , with my eyes open.
Maybe at night everyone has a wild , untamed, primal ,pagan sex goddess inside that occasionally wants to come out and play....
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (5 July 2016):
 I remember having a simular dream, but the man in MY dream was an ancient holy man, WTH he looked like he was about 300 years old ....... pretty funny in hindsight but I was horrified at the time. My boss at the time was an interesting lady, her belief in past lives and other things spiritual made me comfortable enough to discuss my dream with her. (recommended dream interpretation book by Betty Bothards).
Your professor represents wisdom and knowledge, and while you have been sleeping your subconscious has been nutting away at a problem or an issue ...... having sex with your professor simply suggests a deep desire for knowledge and truth.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 July 2016):
 There is not a huge lot that you can do, if you ask me it is probably just a fantasy in your mind while you are sleeping, don't read to much in to them. It does not mean that you have feelings for him. So don't panic and think there is more to them, it is only a dream.
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