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writes:Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years now we have a 1 yr old daughter together the problem is he seems to have lost interest in me I'm no different from when I had our daughter I'm the same size as I was pre pregnancy he is always staring at other women it can be someone walking past our house or if we go out anywhere he stares blatantly in front of me I've told how this hurts me but he keeps on doing it we talked about getting engaged months ago but it hasn't happened what do I do thank you
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reader, ArtisticBiscuit +, writes (7 July 2016):
 Your boyfriend could be finding that raising a child is challenging. It's not that he doesn't love you, it's that having a child isn't what he expected. That's one idea to consider as he's thinking of other options. Having time away from your daughter is important in a relationship. If you don't go on dates without your child perhaps try to fit more into your life. Spark the romance again. P.S. just because you look the same as before pregnancy doesn't mean your personality hasn't changed. (something to evaluate about yourself). Hope this helps.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 July 2016):
 Stare at men every time you see them, see how he reacts. The thing is Sweetie men will look it is in their nature, it does not mean he doesn't fancy you anymore. Maybe things have slowed down since having a baby but that happens. Try spice things up and showing him what he is missing.
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