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writes:I told my GF I loved her two months ago and she hasnt reciprocated. Weve been together since dec 2014. She has not gotten distant only closer to me. I havent asked her why as im not a soft wuss im just wondering if she needs more consistent action from me so she reciprocates? Im her first bf so no past reltshp issues. thanks for any help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your feedback.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 May 2015):
 Maybe she doesn't love you?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (7 May 2015):
 You've been dating for 6 months. You told her that you loved her at the 4 month point, which many people would say that that is too soon to know, much less say.
She places great importance on those words and wants to say them for more than just a passing feeling. She probably wants to make sure that you're not a flake as well, because many guys who say it really fast tend to either fall out of love as quickly as they fall in love or worse, that they use the "I love you" as a means to get something (like sex).
If she's gotten closer to you, then be patient and she'll say it to you. There's no hurry for anything, and 5-6 months is pretty fast to break out the "love" word, though around 6 months or later is when people first start making that decision about their partners.
Remember, actions speak louder than words, and she is most likely just letting time pass as you both get to know each other better.
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