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writes:I met up with my first love a few months ago and have seen each other twice in nearly 6 months. the second time was so intense and we became intimate. When a man is so passionate with an ex girlfriend after nearly 15 years of not seeing her, is it a sign that we may have a future?I want to invite him to my works xmas party but I fear rejection and don't want to appear that I am throwing myself at him.Ay advice particularly from men on the sex side.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 December 2015):
 No, it's not a sign you have a future, it's a sign he hasn't seen you in 15 years and his horny.
Old feelings might blossom again, but briefly and passionately. A hot burst, however, does not mean there will be a strong and lasting flame. It could, but probably not.
A long lasting flame takes time to build up. The hot bursts of passion are generally something you see only briefly. They can be amazing, and give you great pleasure, and something to look back upon with a smile, but when it burns intensely it also burns out quickly.
I didn't intent do write so much in riddles, but I hope you get what I mean. The men who are very passionate very quickly are also the ones to lose interest and become cold very quickly.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (3 December 2015):
 I wouldn't use the Christmas party to get the show on the road again. It's bad enough being invited to these things when you are in a long term relationship. It would be like putting him on display. Start back with a few quiet dinners out followed by a dinner at home perhaps.
As for the sex, it sounds as if you enjoyed it as much as he. However if you are asking does it mean he wants to get back with you full-time and exclusively then no-one can say - except perhaps him.
Take it slow and easy. It could be something or nothing.
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