My friend is angry because I'm contacting her ex, who I've known since childhood.
Q. i need some help my i guess x friend got mad at me cause i text her ex boyfriend and i have known him since i was 4 and i really like him as a friend and she is saying i cant worry about him i cant even be his friend but i dont care what they say im ...
A. 22 August 2008: Don't worry about what ANYONE says. If you've known him since you were four, then obviously you were friends with him before any of the others.
You can never have too many friends, especially life long ones. YOU choose your friends, neve... (read in full...)
Is there a way to help my friend get through his break up?
Q. My guy friend wants to break up with his curret girlf but he doent know how to do it without hurting her feelings. Im not asking how HE should do it, im asking how can you help me help him get through this. I cant hug him and say eveythings gunna be ...
A. 18 August 2008: Break-ups are hard at he best of times, especially when one person doesn't see it coming. The only thing he can do is do it. She's going to hurt no matter what he does. As for him getting over it....he will. (she will too). The only thing YOU ... (read in full...)
I just found out she's been waxing down below--with her ex's help!!!!
Q. my girlfriend is best friends with her last ex, and im ok with that i can trust her, but the more i get to know her the more i realize that they talk everyday and hang out alot and she talks about him alot too, granted she does talk about him like a ...
A. 18 August 2008: Wow! I'm sorry my friend, but what a thing to find out. How is your relationship with her? This is something she should be doing with YOU if she wants it done. I don't know why she'd do it with him but it doesn't sound good. You and her ... (read in full...)
How do I let go of this anger? And how do I let him know how I feel?
Q. last month i posted a question on here about the guy i was seeing / sleeping with and how i didn't know if we were i a relationship or not [ the question is here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-we-in-a-relationship-just-without-the.html ]. ...
A. 18 August 2008: First of all, although he should never have cheated on you with ANYONE, he did tell you because he didn't like lying to you. Telling someone you've been unfaithful is very difficult and maybe it took him that long to gather up the nerve to tell ... (read in full...)
I made out with my best friend's boyfriend - help!
Q. i really like my best friends sheas boyfriend alec. but sheas brother brent really likes me .brent is really jelouse that i like alec.but i feel guilty because i made out with alec when shea was gone . and i dont know what to do. should i tel...
A. 18 August 2008: It makes me wonder what kind of relationship your friend and Alec have if he is with you when she's away. You should have had respect for her relationship no matter how you feel about her boyfriend.
There are so many variables here and ... (read in full...)
Cheated on my boyfriend with a holiday fling - now I'm home and miserable..
Q. Please help me cope with these weird feelings... I have a boyfriend and we were going fine. Then I recently went on a trip for 4 days with a friend. While i was there i met this really nice lad. We got off etc, and we didnt really say goodbye ...
A. 2 August 2008: While you were away, you WERE living a different life. Is your relationship with your boyfriend everything you really want? I ask this because you said you don't feel guilty.
Don't think of the bad things with your boyfriend, always thin... (read in full...)
What can I get my friend for her bridal shower?
Q. My friend is getting married and she's having a bridal shower next week. I don't know what to get her. She's staying at her fiance's parents basement until their new house get buildt (6 months later). I don't want to get her any furniture/applicance ...
A. 2 August 2008: I agree with lexilou. Give her a gift certificate from a store. She can get whatever she wants or needs and will always have you to thank for it.... (read in full...)
I constantly feel ugly and fat. I need to feel positive abouy myself, but I don't know how.
Q. I don't know who to talk to about this, because it just sounds so silly...but I constantly feel ugly and fat. It's gotten to the point where I will stare at myself in the mirror and cry, and then compare myself to everyone who is skinny. I've been...
A. 2 August 2008: You need to realise how special you are. There never has been or ever will be anyone just like you.
Don't worry about the friends and all the guys they always seem to have. One day someone is going to love everything about you and he's... (read in full...)
We were purely casual, so why is he mad that I got with another guy?
Q. i am 18 years old and was seeing a 19 guy for a few weeks quite seriously. then everything went a bit wrong and we stopped seeing as much of each other. he made it very clear he didn't want a relationship and so we left it casual. now he has found ...
A. 2 August 2008: A very common reaction. It's good old jealousy my dear. Even if a guy is seeing someone casually, he can't stand the thought of her being with anyone else (in any capacity). My guess is he DOES like you more than he let on.... (read in full...)
I need to tell him how much I like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship.
Q. I'm 17 years old and just graduated from high school. I like a guy who is turning 17 August 9th. I've liked him for about 5-6 months now and I'm not sure if he knows I like him. We've been best friends for two years now. After getting advice from my ...
A. 1 August 2008: I really don't think your friendship will change. Even if he doesn't like you in that way, you're never going to know until you tell him. A lot of boys are just too scared to tell a girl they like them. For young guys, the fear of rejectio... (read in full...)
She's ready and I'm not!
Q. she is ready for us to lose our virginity but im not. im 15 n she is 3 years older what do i do??...
A. 1 August 2008: Sex is a very strong psychological thing. Being only 15 and not having done it yet, you have no idea how strong it is and what it can do to you if you're not totally ready. Wait. When you're ready, you'll know.... (read in full...)
Cut him out of my life, or keep him as a friend?
Q. i was with my boyfriend for 3 years. but then he dumped me. out of the blue. only he didn't dump me i had to ask if i was single. confused. ;S o'm just confused about what to do? should i cut him out of my life? or keep him in it as a friend?...
A. 1 August 2008: Save yourself any future grief. Cut him out of your life. This doesn't mean you have to be cold and uncivil if you run into him somewhere, it just means move on without him.... (read in full...)
I think I've gotten feelings for my ex again!
Q. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now and really get along with him, i really like him, but recently i have been thinking about my ex alot. me and my ex broke up for silly reasons and i think iam getten feelings for him again. am ...
A. 1 August 2008: The reasons for breaking up with your ex couldn't have been that silly if after 8 mos you two haven't done anything about it. You broke up once, let sleeping dogs lie. You are with someone else and are getting along well. Focus on that.... (read in full...)
She's abusive. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend is 19 and i am 15. Recently we have been argueing lots because i went around to her house and found mens cloths and used condoms all over her place. So i asked her what was going on and she said she has had a few mates over for a ...
A. 1 August 2008: What should you do? You're 15. There are thousands of wonderful 15 year old girls. Meet some.... (read in full...)
I need to leave and fix my life but it is just so hard. Am I wrong? Do I need help?
Q. Well here is my situation. I was previously married to my high school sweetheart. We dated for 11 years and were married for 3. The second and third year of marriage was terrible. He worked a ton and so did I. I worked nights, weekends or day ...
A. 1 August 2008: If you feel depressed everyday, you are on a very bad road. If all you have right now is no help with anything, verbal abuse and bruises, please, do yourself a favour and leave. Of course it's hard, it always is but you've got to look out for ... (read in full...)
I feel controlled by my girlfriend, but I wonder if I am the one in the wrong.
Q. Hi, I'm having problems with my girlfriend but im not sure if it is me who is in the wrong. I'm 30 and she is nearly 27. We have been going out 4 mths now, and I normally see her a few times a week. However she doesnt like me arranging social a...
A. 1 August 2008: How is the time that you spend together? I think all she wants is to know is that she's special. When she's secure in this, she'll be secure in your doing things on your own. If you haven't already, you should be introducing her to... (read in full...)
Did I make a mistake by never making an effort with my ex girlfriend when I had the chance?
Q. I had a girlfriend who was really nice to me, gorgeous, independent, smart (college grad), never asked me for material things, cooked for me, took care of me when i was sick, there for me when i needed her, faithful-- and i never made time for her. ...
A. 1 August 2008: If you really like this girl, then yes, you made a mistake. A BIG mistake. Obviously she cared a great deal for you and showed you this by all the things she did for you. A lot of things go on (work in your case), that blind people to what i... (read in full...)
Why did he push me away so drastically - couldn't he have given me an ultimatum?
Q. I knew this man for a short time and we never had sex purely because I dont give the goods away too quick. he contacted me a few times by e mail and we met up again for a short while as he was off on a business meeting. In the e mail I told himn...
A. 31 July 2008: It's hard to understand people sometimes but to answer your question as to whether or not he could have given you a choice or an ultimatum is no. For whatever reason he had for ending it, there was no room for a choice on your part. He would... (read in full...)
Despite warning about this lad and knowing that he's no good - I can't stay away from him
Q. I know I risk sounding naive in this question, but I need some answers really badly. Ok, my problem mainly involves me, my best friend and a boy (I say boy, but he's 18 nearly 19 so this classes him as a man). Im about to turn 16 and have a boy mate ...
A. 31 July 2008: What can you do? LISTEN TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!! You're not naive, you're not even 16. I was your age once and I know all about how hard it is to break up and all those other good things. But do you know what? He's the one who's going to dump ... (read in full...)
His family is getting in the way of us. He won't stand up to his mum!
Q. Hey, I was hoping you'd be able to shed some light or give me some advice on some of the things that our relationship has been facing lately. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, I'm 20 and he's 22, we both are at uni, and both share the ...
A. 30 July 2008: Well my dear, to say you are in the beginnings of a difficult future is an understatement. There are so many issues here but the main ones are acceptance (or lack of), and your relationship with your boyfriend.
Not just his mother but anyo... (read in full...)
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