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writes: i have been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now and really get along with him, i really like him, but recently i have been thinking about my ex alot. me and my ex broke up for silly reasons and i think iam getten feelings for him again. am i being silly or what should i do ???
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (1 August 2008):
If your feelings are not as strong for your current boyfriend as they are for your ex, you need to leave your boyfriend. Be gental, getting dumped is a crappy feeling, especially if it is for an ex. But it isnt fair to keep your boyfriend hanging on when your heart isnt in it. Good luck
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reader, xray2112 +, writes (1 August 2008):
The reasons for breaking up with your ex couldn't have been that silly if after 8 mos you two haven't done anything about it. You broke up once, let sleeping dogs lie. You are with someone else and are getting along well. Focus on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): You said it is silly reason that made you and your x broke up. One of them can be wrong but if you two wrong at the same time, it means that particular time, you two do intended to end it.Since you are with your new bf, whatever you do, don't cheat. You have to move on. Think of the bad things that support the break up.If you keep going on this way, it is not fair for your bf. Good luck.
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reader, T_K_M +, writes (1 August 2008):
Well :P We've all been in that situation...Give it time, and think of which ones cares for you more, and treats you better and also about who you care about the most. If it happens to be your ex and you want him back, just tell your current boyfriend that you're in love with someone else. As far as you being silly? Nah, We're just females :P we can be a bit confused and confusing sometimes :P hope this helped. Later.
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