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*eth123
writes:Please help me cope with these weird feelings...I have a boyfriend and we were going fine. Then I recently went on a trip for 4 days with a friend. While i was there i met this really nice lad. We got off etc, and we didnt really say goodbye properley when i left, i had a great time. I know i should feel guilty, but i don't, while we were there i felt like i was living a different life. Ever since i got home ive felt like crap. I cant stop thinking about him, and im being a bit off with my boyfriend for obvious reasons, but he hasn't done anything wrong. All i keep thinking about is how much i want to go back, and i get reminded of bad things in my currrent relationship from when he cheated with my 'best' friend. I dont know how to stop getting down about it. Everything about being at home seems so dull now :(. Ive been trying to find the lad i met on the internet but had no luck, as we didnt exchange numbers, which is probably for the better :( what should i doo?? help please x
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reader, shady2012  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 you have to understand what you have at home is reality. and when you go off on vacation/out/etc. is for fun. you obviously had a "one night stand" sorta thing so the best way to handle it is too just leave take it for what it is. FUN. if you really cant stop thinking about it. than you should be single. so you dont hurt anyone. especially your mind and character. one night stands aren't things you should be proud of. but if they happen and you cant fight the temptation than its easy. do it and do look back babe. hope it helps message anytime goodluck
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reader, xray2112  +, writes (2 August 2008):
While you were away, you WERE living a different life. Is your relationship with your boyfriend everything you really want? I ask this because you said you don't feel guilty.
Don't think of the bad things with your boyfriend, always think of the good things or else you'll always be comparing the no strings "fling" with the committment you are in. The no strings always seems better at first.
It's only natural to be thinking of the other one, but you're better off just to chalk it as one of your memories.
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