My boyfriend is always late, it's getting annoying. How do I bring it up?
Q. Im only 16 years old, and i guess you could all say i shouldnt be commiting mself into a serious relationship at this age, but ive nown my boyfriend since i was around 6 years old and weve always had that close bond. 8 months ago we got together and ...
A. 15 September 2008: just tell him to be somewhere 30 min. before he really needs to be there or something
good luck
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I feel like I didn't flirt enough and missed my chance, help!
Q. i know i ask alot of ?'s and im sry but this is reallllly bothering me... ok so i liked this guy... he was a big flirt, and sat with me at lunch and we would chat alot and stuff and text and i thought wow this is great and i was thrilled then he ...
A. 27 August 2008: ok sooo... they broke up today becuase he sat with me at lunch and not her... he was really flirty and im falling for him... he doesnt like guurls that complain so im trying to hold it in... ... (read in full...)
Can someone help me sort out some dating issues?
Q. I have a few issues on my mind currently, i'll put them in one lot and make it brief so i may get answers. a)My ex, who now has a girlfriend, decided to message me saying he still loves me, and when him+his gf split, would i take him back? (i tol...
A. 16 August 2008: well...
a) why did you and ur bf break up?
b) try to get your moind of this guy
c) tell you best friend she needs to stop cheating... it will only lead to biggerproblems that you dont want to deal with.
d) tell your friends you need help too th... (read in full...)
His mom caught us having sex and now she wants him to break off with me!
Q. Is Just2love again...I was at my Boyfriends house, we had sex that lasted oh i dont know about 20mins maybe-we forgot lock the front door, his mom came over we didnt even know she was there until she came through the bedroom door. We had to think ...
A. 16 August 2008: wow...
maybe he just wants marriage and sees this as a way....
what do u honestly want? its ALL up to you... (read in full...)
I have fallen for a girl who is "out of my league" and I think she's having a secret relationship with another girl...
Q. I have fallen for a girl who is way out of my league and i think she's having a secret relationship with a girl. This girl lives across the road from me, we are the same age but we've never spoken, although her parents and mine talk to eachothe...
A. 16 August 2008: ummm well if shes gay then i wouldnt ask her out... best of luck! and dont say that about ur self... some girls like a sweet guy and looks dont matter... (read in full...)
He was nice to me... but I found out he was extremely mean to my BEST friend...? Any help?
Q. ok so here is goes... i started school last tuesday... it was going wonderful i met alot of nice guys... and one of them i had a class with and he always sat with me... and i really started likeing him,... and im good friends now with his friends ...
A. 15 August 2008: yeah... she keeps tellin me that he just wants to get in my pants and crap.... and they HATE eachother.... he said it doesnt matter if they hate eachother that he wont avoid me cause i didnt do anything... (read in full...)
How do I find out if she likes me, and will my parents let me have a girlfriend?
Q. im a 13 year old boy. I hav a crush on someone and i am really desperate for a girlfriend. I dont know if she likes me because sometimes shes sending me lots of texts and laughs at my jokes but sometimes she completely ignores me. How do i find out ...
A. 15 August 2008: well im 14 and i use to feel the same... lik i needed a guy to be happy and truly... its not like that... just enjoy being single... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 10 August 2008: yeah i was stupid to talk to him... yesterday he texted me and said hey whats up, i said uh hi, and he said you think im a fag dont you, i said now why would i think that. and he said cuz i took advantage of you and you know it. and i said yupp and ... (read in full...)
His friends are sending me mail, saying this guy that I like, loves me, as if it is from him, should I confront them or just ignore them?
Q. hi through past couple of months i've had serious issues wit boys and its not my fault...but any way this kid that i really really LIKED he sent me an im saying iloveyou and then he signed off you know normally you would think this is a good but its ...
A. 8 August 2008: haha thanks Tisha-1
and dont let them get to you! it will only make them do it more!... (read in full...)
I just don't know how to get him to notice me or even if he's actually interested...
Q. i like this guy where ive been working on and off for about 3 years, ive liked him for about a year now. i just melt when i see him and he just makes me laugh all the time. it seems also that he finds it easy to talk to me and i managed to chee...
A. 8 August 2008: go for it. that worst thing that happens is he says no. which i doubt will happen. haha in middle school my friends use to ask out guys and if they would say no then the girl would say its a dare anyway lol
anyway good luck,
maybe hes waiting ... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 5 August 2008: i cant do that though, idk why this was our convo
him-hey whats up
me- hey
him-hi how are you
me-im ok wbu
him-same ummm idk
me-what?
him-i'll tell you later
me-tell me what?
him you'll see later
so i am going crazy trying to find out wh... (read in full...)
His friends are sending me mail, saying this guy that I like, loves me, as if it is from him, should I confront them or just ignore them?
Q. hi through past couple of months i've had serious issues wit boys and its not my fault...but any way this kid that i really really LIKED he sent me an im saying iloveyou and then he signed off you know normally you would think this is a good but its ...
A. 5 August 2008: well hmm show them ur not afraid what about his for a convo
a:iloveyou
b:aww too bad i have a boyfriend. or something?
or tell them
a:iloveyou
b:doesn't everyone?
just make a joke out of it and it will piss them off.
keep me updated!
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He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 5 August 2008: well crap. i was doing SO good at staying away from him... then all of a sudden dang! he started texting me alot and stuff and before i would go to bed he would be like sweet dreams ill text u first thing in the morning. and stuff and then he texted ... (read in full...)
We would text all the time. Now he won't reply. I don't mind if he doesn't fancy me anymore, I just want my friend back.
Q. I have been texting this guy that is around my age...a few months younger. We flirt all the time and he always compliments me which makes me feel really good and also makes me like him more. For example, if we see eachother that night and I am ...
A. 1 August 2008: but today i said are you gonna talk to me or not! and he said hey... (read in full...)
We would text all the time. Now he won't reply. I don't mind if he doesn't fancy me anymore, I just want my friend back.
Q. I have been texting this guy that is around my age...a few months younger. We flirt all the time and he always compliments me which makes me feel really good and also makes me like him more. For example, if we see eachother that night and I am ...
A. 1 August 2008: oh my gosh! i a ahving the same EXACT PROBLEM!... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 1 August 2008: yeah, thanks so much for the help... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this? My stepmom won't let me have extended visits with my mom anymore?
Q. Last night I was watching TV and when I had to go to bed I saw my favorite show was on, so I decided to watch it, when it was done I went upstairs to find my stepmom watching me. Because she knew I didn't go to bed, I got in trouble, and now she ...
A. 31 July 2008: that's insane. if i were you i would tell her to shut up that she's not you mom, . . not the best idea, but anyway, i would tell your dad or osmething, im only 14 so i dont really know
good luckk
xoxo... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 31 July 2008: and his dad is the headmaster at my catholic priv. school... and i use to go to the same church as him... (read in full...)
Another ten with an Am I Pregnant question?
Q. I'm 16 and I think I may be pregnant. My last period started on June 22, 2008. I had unprotected sex on July 5th, 2008.it is july 30th and I still have not got my period. A few days after we had sex I had blood spotting but only for a day or 2.now I ...
A. 31 July 2008: wow.... u sound so mature... thats great of you to take responiblity for your actions, i hope i can be that mature by the time in ur age
good luck
keep us posted
xoxo... (read in full...)
How can I talk to my girlfriend and be closer to her?
Q. hi i am 14 and my gf is 13. we have been dating 4 a year and a half now. i realy love her. but this summer we have talked about 3 times. wat do i do to be more closer to her. and wat do i say to her. she likes alot of thigs so just give me a topic ...
A. 31 July 2008: hey, im fourteen also, i would just ask her how her family is, how she's doing, how is she feeling, stuff like that, just ask whatever comes to mind, tell her u miss her, ask her about her day. if anything bad ahs happened talk to her about, thats ... (read in full...)
What are stretch marks?
Q. i've read about streatch marks but i have no idea what r they i know i am a female and i should know about it but i really have absolutely NO IDEA what strech marks r ...
A. 31 July 2008: its when your skin is streched and theyr'e liek purple lines... (read in full...)
I get self concious around girly girls, and I sometimes feel like my boyfriend wants me to be more feminine. Help!
Q. hello! so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now. we're close and all so it's all good. but i am so self conscious. like i'm a tom boy i guess. i'm not a girly girl at all and i don't wear girly stuff. it's just not me and i do...
A. 31 July 2008: aww it sounds like you want to change for urself and not just him, and i would be amd to if there were other girls around even though it isnt the best idea. it sounds like you have a good boyfriend, and i wouldn't change, you are who you are
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He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 31 July 2008: okay well i made up my mind today. and we have stopped talking. i think it will be easiest. and im catholic so... none of that stuff will work. he always tells me how he cant get a girlfriend, then lies to me when he does get one and hides it from ... (read in full...)
Despite warning about this lad and knowing that he's no good - I can't stay away from him
Q. I know I risk sounding naive in this question, but I need some answers really badly. Ok, my problem mainly involves me, my best friend and a boy (I say boy, but he's 18 nearly 19 so this classes him as a man). Im about to turn 16 and have a boy mate ...
A. 30 July 2008: okay, well i have a similar problem, i'm only 14 though, and i really can't stay away from this guy, we text alot, and he went out with my best friend,*(but they broke up) and she says stay away, he'll hurt you, and of course i get amd at her and ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and find it hard to converse with my family. Can anyone help me out please?
Q. im 14 and when i have to talk to my family i really dont no what to say. it ends up to be an awkard scilence whenever im in a room alone. well im going to my auntys for the day tomorrow and im scared that im gonna not know what to say. what shall i ...
A. 30 July 2008: i'm 14 also, and its really hard for it not to be weird or awkward but just ask them about there day, or ask whats for dinner. just keep it going. . .
best of luckk
xoxo
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I can't tell my parents I'm pregnant, what am I going to do??
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 2 years had sex and i think i might be pregnant, and seeing as i come from a Catholic family i cannot tell my parents. What should i do? Love SOS...
A. 30 July 2008: i'm catholic to so i understand where ur coming from. just stay calm. and it will be okay. best of luck
xoxo
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How can I not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?
Q. How can i not be shy around my cousin who is a boy?...
A. 30 July 2008: well im 14 and my cousin is 15 and we are pretty close, just think of him as a brother, or something, thats what i do and it works. xoxo... (read in full...)
How can I deal with knowing I can't see my mother till Christmas (my parents are divorced)?
Q. I'm 13 going to be 14 soon, but when I was 3 my parents got a divorce, and now my mom lives 6 hrs away and I only see during holidays and this summer I stayed with her for 3 weeks and i returned a few days ago. but as soon as I said good bye I just ...
A. 30 July 2008: aww, im so sry. why dont you talk to whoever cares for you adn ask them about maybe you living with your mom for a year Keep Me Posted xoxo... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 30 July 2008: i ment when he is really good friends with ur best friend... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 30 July 2008: wow. i just realized how pathetic i was. wow. ... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 30 July 2008: ofcourse her feeligns matter to me. its just kinda hard when u is realllllly good friendss with ur best friend. me and him are becominf good friends but it takes time... (read in full...)
He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?
Q. okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...
A. 30 July 2008: well she dumped him. i mean there is no possible way she would care. in fact they are best friends... (read in full...)
I'm 14, catholic, & want to have a baby!
Q. well i'm 14 and reallllly want to have a baby. i want to be married and, 5 months pregnant right now. i have babysat a lil a baby before but so i know its not a walk in the park. and i know they refuse to sleep and cry and stuff and im catholic so ...
A. 30 July 2008: thank you so much! XOXO... (read in full...)
Should I get with him regardless of his flirty ways?
Q. I like this guy and i can tell he like me to but hes a big flirt...but i like him alot...but i scared that if i get with him he might hurt me ...because when he had his exgirlfriend he kissed me multiple times...how do i know he won't do the same ...
A. 30 July 2008: Sounds kinda risky. if he kissed you while he had a girlfriend.... i dont think he will change. if u do go out with him, keep your eye on him. just dont expect him to change for you good luck ! XOXO... (read in full...)
Does an abortion hurt under local anaesthetic?
Q. i'm 16 and i've just found out that i am 8 weeks pregnant. I know without a doubt that I am going to have an abortion, my mind is made up about that one. I just want to know what the least painful method of abortion is as i'm terrified of general ...
A. 30 July 2008: o please honey. re think, please, just think about adoption, dont make them miss all the good thems in life liek tehre 1st kiss, or the there grad. or anything. they deserve better. adoption is the best way to go. eight weeks, doesnt that mean there ... (read in full...)
My best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up!
Q. I have this one probleme my best friend is trying to break me and my boyfriend up, and it really huts to know she is doing that what should i do?...
A. 30 July 2008: i would tell her to back out. and tell her shes hurting you, and if ur boyfriend truely likes you, he wont let her get in the way best of luck!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be attracted to my third cousin?
Q. Ok, so i have a problem that might sound weird.. I like my third cousin, and she likes me. I've never known her until we met a few months ago, our families don't even really know each other its only that my mother is a family genealogy expert...
A. 30 July 2008: well... its kinda different... maybe its wrong. in all honesty at first the idea seeemed kinda of sick but im trying to stay open minded... (read in full...)
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