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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have fallen for a girl who is way out of my league and i think she's having a secret relationship with a girl.This girl lives across the road from me, we are the same age but we've never spoken, although her parents and mine talk to eachother. Whenever i see her in the garden or in the window, i try to make myself noticeable but she never even looks at me. She is the most stunning girl i've ever seen. She's also really popular, i always see her with her mates, even guys, and i just wish she would acknowledge me, because i would love to try and get close to her.Anyway, (im going to sound a real creep now..). I can see her bedroom and garden from my bedroom. and some nights i just sit in my room and watch her while she goes about in her room, i get butterflies when i see her and ive never felt like this for anyone, especially someone who ive never even spoke to. The other day, her parents had gone away for the weekend (i over heard my parents and her parents talking before they left). So i thought maybe i would pluck up the courage to speak to her that weekend but she wasnt alone all weekend. She had massive garden parties, and like a sado i watched from my room. Whenever i saw her talking to a guy, i could feel myself getting angry and jealous. As the night went on, people looked to be disapearing and the girls got into her hot tub, that she has on the decking. Then i saw her and a girl she is always with, who i assume is her best mate; kissing eachother in front of the other girls. The other girls were just ignoring it like it was normal, and i know most guys would have loved to see it but i was just jealous. Recently ive seen her kissing this girl in her room when the house is empty.... So i assume there is something going off with eachother but i need help. Should i just pluck up the courage to ask her out, or leave her because shes way out of my league? Help its driving me crazy
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reader, Nick Man  +, writes (16 August 2008):
she probably might wonder if youve been spying on her if you ask her directly after her parents leave... wait an hour or so so that you dont seem suspicious
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reader, tryin2helpu +, writes (16 August 2008):
 ummm well if shes gay then i wouldnt ask her out... best of luck! and dont say that about ur self... some girls like a sweet guy and looks dont matter
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (16 August 2008):
U SHUD NEVER THINK UR OUT OF SOMEONES LEAGUE DUDE...come on pluck up the courage and ask her wats going on..if shes bi? lesbian? and if shes interested in a date with u....JUST DO IT wat do u hav to lose?
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