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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hi through past couple of months i've had serious issues wit boys and its not my fault...but any way this kid that i really really LIKED he sent me an im saying iloveyou and then he signed off you know normally you would think this is a good but its not him and his friends do that to girls who arent as you know popular as others and know i hate him ..... can someone tell me if i should? or should i just let it go? Reply to this Question
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reader, tryin2helpu +, writes (8 August 2008):
 haha thanks Tisha-1
and dont let them get to you! it will only make them do it more!
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 August 2008):
 I like tryin2helpu's strategy! That's brilliant. You turn whatever they say to you into a joke. I think that is a good way to handle people like that, turn it back on them.
Also, if you can manage it, ignoring them as if they were the fungus living on the mites on the fleas on a mangy dog. Look at them as though they were lower forms of life, and just go on about your day. People like this draw enjoyment from making people uncomfortable, and if you show no signs of it, they'll get bored and move on to another victim.
Good luck. And let us know how tryin2helpu's tactic works.
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female
reader, tryin2helpu +, writes (5 August 2008):
well hmm show them ur not afraid what about his for a convo
a:iloveyou
b:aww too bad i have a boyfriend. or something?
or tell them
a:iloveyou
b:doesn't everyone?
just make a joke out of it and it will piss them off.
keep me updated!
xoxo
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