Erection when hugging/kissing my girlfriend
Q. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months now, and the last couple times we've taken the time to say goodbye on her front porch before I leave her house we've spend a lot of time hugging and kissing goodbye and even just talking ...
A. 13 May 2012: Don't sweat this.
I got an errection when I hugged my girlfriend when I was 18 all the freaking time.
I actually find that more subtle touching gives me errections much more easily then heavy stuff. I tend to be most aroused when I am just cud... (read in full...)
Are there long term psychological effects of prostitution?
Q. Hey I know a girl who has been a prostitute. I met her at a pub about 7 months ago. We started going out a bit. THen she told me. She was one for many years. She says she is out of the life now. I believe in the past is the past. But my mates tel...
A. 8 May 2012: People's pasts are exactly that.
She might think it was a fine move at that point, or she may be regretful.
You both need to talk about it and how it might effect your relationship if you have any concerns.
If not, what is the issue?
I wo... (read in full...)
He stares at me but I'm too shy to find out if that means he's interested!
Q. Hi everyone! I need some help and would greatly appreciate any advice you have to offer. There's this guy that I work with who stares at me. At first I thought it was in my head, but when I look away and then look back, he's still staring. The ...
A. 28 April 2012: Getting over your shyness is a hard thing to do but sooo worth it!
My girlfriend and I would have been together 6 months earlier if it wasen't for that voice in my head telling me not to.
No good man is going to be a jerk to you for you asking h... (read in full...)
Girls would you be OK with this? Guys how do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party?
Q. I am just asking this question out of curiousity. It is for both men and women. How do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party? Maybe it is because I have low self-esteem but if my fiance was enjoying that kind of show, I woul...
A. 28 April 2012: For me personally, I think the idea of watching a strippers is sort of gross, cheesy and cheap. It is not a turn on to me at all.
If my girlfriend was not comfortable with me going to the strippers- I don't go. I don't care if it is just for my f... (read in full...)
Why do men get in relationships?
Q. This is a question for men. Why do you get in relationships? I'm not just talking about the companionship aspect. A lot of women seem to ask questions about porn and or strip clubs and their boyfriends/husbands using or going to them. Some women, ...
A. 23 April 2012: I'm going to answer this as best I can from my perspective.
my girlfriend is not 'skinny', but she is not big by any means. She often comments that she is 'fat' or jokingly says I must be a 'chubby chaser'. What she doesn't understand is how beau... (read in full...)
Could I just be turned off from my wife?
Q. Hello there. I need some opinion about my really disturbing problem. I have a ED , a few years ago. I went to the doctors, checked everything ,more than once, and Im perfectly healthy. So it does not make sense. But I never think of sex, not with ...
A. 23 April 2012: I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that you are turned off by your wife quite yet.
I am CRAZY about my girlfriend but from time to time, stress from my job, school, etc. will be up and even if I'm not thinking about those things, I won't be as easi... (read in full...)
Girfriend has not orgasmed, am I doing something wrong?
Q. I have had sex with my gf three times and fingered her millions of times but not once has she orgasim ,should i do it longer ? My gf said her playing with my penis turns her on, is this a good thing ?...
A. 23 April 2012: I am currently seeing a girl whom I cannot have sex with, but we still find ways of pleasuring each other.
I can't speak for anyone else, but even though i had no problem getting her off the first few times, you are going to run into snags. I... (read in full...)
Can I get past someone's looks and fall for them?
Q. after a not so great relationship for four years i am now dating. i have met nice man but in truth he does nothin for me! he is very.sweet kind etc and i no he feels a great deal for me. i no i sound shallow but im wonderng can u get past someon ...
A. 23 April 2012: You want to start dating 'good' guys- and this is good.
But physical attraction is a very important part of any relationship. Would you want to be with someone who wasnt attracted to you?
Maybe you are attracted to him but don't realize it or admit... (read in full...)
He and I want to make things work, but I'm struggling with his past!
Q. So here is my story. I have been dating a co-worker for the past 14 months. He is 10 years older to me and single. 6 months into our relationship, I found out that he cheated on me with two other women physically. After I confronted him, ...
A. 17 April 2012: Noone is perfect, and few people find their partner's pasts 'perfect' - part of a relationship is accepting that both of you have made mistakes in your life and are working on the now.
However, this isn't just his past. He has lost your trust, a... (read in full...)
How important are looks when already in a relationship?
Q. How important are looks when already in a relationship. I know there has to be an initial attraction but after that? My problem is that by using make-up, the right clothes (like a padded bra), heels - I can look far more attractive than ...
A. 13 April 2012: Oh god.
Stop worrying so much. My girlfriend isn't the smallest girl in the world, but she isn't big by any means. I love her even with all of her 'flaws' ... if I didn't find her attractive, I wouldn't be with her- wouldn't be fair to either of u... (read in full...)
I feel like a freak because I don't want children!
Q. Is it weird that I don't want children? Sometimes I feel like a freak. All the women in my family are VERY fertile, they all have kids and most started at young ages. Even all the men in my family have or want children. So when I tell my mother and ...
A. 13 April 2012: Nope!
I don't want children either and would only date a girl who doesn't. My current girlfriend doesn't want kids. She is still loving and caring. Nothing wrong what so ever.... (read in full...)
How do I change the way I feel about the fact that my girlfriend has had previous sexual partners?
Q. I have a girlfriend with a great personality and character- I find her very attractive and I can see something long term with her and I know she feels the same way. I am 26, and a virgin (not from a lack of oppertunity, but because I am hesistent to ...
A. 11 April 2012: Thanks all.
We still have not done it, but we have worked our way through trying some other things together.
Our relationship is so strong that we never really have an awkward or dull moment- and we are both great at communicating what we like and... (read in full...)
I'm ready to lose my virginity to her, but a few things are getting in the way!
Q. I am 26 and in a relationship. I have never had sex before, but feel that I've finally found the woman that I would like to give myself to. We have a great connection, and this week we started to get hot n' heavy and she asked if I wanted to. I said ...
A. 18 March 2012: You all were right! We still haven't done 'it', but we've talked more, got more comfortable and I feel alot better. She is a wonderful woman and I was worried over nothing.
Thanks everybody... (read in full...)
I'm worried that no woman will ever be interested in me because of my financial problems
Q. I need some encouragment. I am 26 years old and just going to college. I am having some money problems with school loans so I may have to drop out, but I will pursue my education none the less. I am worried that no quality woman I would want to be ...
A. 26 September 2011: Thanks everybody
I should make it clear that by no means am I a deadbeat guy or cheap or that I depend on others. I've paid my own rent and bills for the last 5 years and I have no intention of having anyone else do it for me.
If a woman is wil... (read in full...)
Dirty text messages - sexy or stupid?
Q. Guys: are dirty text messages sexy and flirty or skanky and stupid? My boyfriend is coming over Tuesday night and we usually only see each other once per week. Thus, that is our night to be intimate. I want to send him a flirty, verging on dirty...
A. 22 August 2011: I think that everything outside of your 'horny' mind ussually sounds sort of silly. The fact is that if you enjoy sending them- why not go for it? Alot of guys would enjoy it. For me, I might be a bit uncomfortable because I am a prude, but it would ... (read in full...)
Should I just risk it and kiss him?
Q. There's this guy that over the past 2 weeks that I've become really close too and I really like him and I think he likes me. We've gotten to know each other really well and I think that we are really compatible, but the problem is he's just turned ...
A. 24 June 2011: That's quite an age difference for someone who is 15. Be careful, as even if he is a great guy, you still haven't matured and it might be better if you take things slow. I can't tell you what to do, but just make sure you don't get in over your ... (read in full...)
I made a big mistake while drunk. How do I move on?
Q. About 4 year ago, I went to a bar. I was 21 at the time, and pretty inexperienced when it came to any sort of physical interaction. I felt as though I needed to get out and see what I was 'missing'. I was sitting outside of a local bar on a patio,...
A. 26 May 2011: Thanks all for your wonderful answers and suggestions.
I am going to seek out some therapy to help me out with my underlying issues.
I have a way of asking the 'what if' questions to a ridiculous extent. When I feel there is a bit of hope of givin... (read in full...)
I made a big mistake while drunk. How do I move on?
Q. About 4 year ago, I went to a bar. I was 21 at the time, and pretty inexperienced when it came to any sort of physical interaction. I felt as though I needed to get out and see what I was 'missing'. I was sitting outside of a local bar on a patio,...
A. 25 May 2011: Thanks for all the response already.
I think that for me, one of my biggest issues is that normally I treat everyone with a lot of respect and consideration. Normally when I hate people -or even want to date people- it takes me a long time to do a... (read in full...)
Is this forgivable and would you forgive?
Q. I just got out of counselling over an issue that I am having a very hard time forgiving myself for. I want to see if what I did would be forgiven, generally, particularly with an explaination and proper apology. In breif, I made an akward move on ...
A. 23 July 2010: I should also make it clear that this woman was a stranger- and I kissed her, she didn't kiss me. ... (read in full...)
Is this forgivable and would you forgive?
Q. I just got out of counselling over an issue that I am having a very hard time forgiving myself for. I want to see if what I did would be forgiven, generally, particularly with an explaination and proper apology. In breif, I made an akward move on ...
A. 23 July 2010: My question may have been slightly misleading because of a lack of distinction.
When I refer to the story with both parties- I am talking about a totally different instance with another woman, not with this woman.... (read in full...)
He tried to force himself on me. Am I over-reacting?
Q. I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks. he was really nice, opened doors for me, said sweet things, and seemed real cool. He seemed patient, didn't mind spending time with my family, and was real smart. he was older than me and seemed so ...
A. 20 July 2010: To most men, there is nothing more cringe-worthy than doing something that makes another person uncomofortable in a sexual way. If he had made the move, seen you were uncomfortable, then stoped, that would be one thing. However, the way he talked t... (read in full...)
Did I sexually assault someone?
Q. Hey Everyone. Sorry that this is so long, but it’s been bothering me and I have to get it off my chest, and see what people’s opinions are so hopefully I can put my mind to rest. Here is my story as I best remember it and as truthfully as possible. ...
A. 20 July 2010: thanks again for all the great input. It's been like 3 years of constant thinking of low- self esteem, so things will take time. Sometimes when I notice I've stoped thinking about it - even for a few minutes, I just feel empty and confused... (read in full...)
Did I sexually assault someone?
Q. Hey Everyone. Sorry that this is so long, but it’s been bothering me and I have to get it off my chest, and see what people’s opinions are so hopefully I can put my mind to rest. Here is my story as I best remember it and as truthfully as possible. ...
A. 18 July 2010: Thanks everyone for your amazing input.
I'll be the first one to admit that what I did definatly was not the smartest and it was not appropriate.
To try to make ammends, I made a facebook psedonym and posted a short message on the two differen... (read in full...)
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