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reader, tottenhamhotspur  +, writes (23 April 2012):
You want to start dating 'good' guys- and this is good.
But physical attraction is a very important part of any relationship. Would you want to be with someone who wasnt attracted to you?
Maybe you are attracted to him but don't realize it or admit it. Maybe you arent and should just keep looking for those qualities in guys that you do find an attraction towards.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 If you don't fancy someone at all then they are not a partner - they are a friend. You really must have some natural attraction for them, I think. So no, this guy won't do. He is only a friend. Keep dating and looking.
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (22 April 2012):
 Unfortunately we cannot choose who we fall for or who we are attracted to. That kinda chooses itself for us. I have a feeling you may have met this man on the rebound.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i think after making bad choices with men in the past i thought i should try looking for personality rather looks. but not sure its gonna work lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012): If he does nothing for you then why date he may as well be moved to friend zone. Let him go find a woman who is physically attracted to him
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reader, Thisiscrazy  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 Attraction to another is what makes you look at someone you look at them from across the room..
Something more has pulled you towards him if your not attractred to him what sent you in his direction.
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