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writes:ok.. wellthe thing is that sometimes i feel very lonelyi dont know if i am depressed or something, well i dont think so.. i have many friends and a good family, dont misunderstood methe thing is, love has never knock my door, and i dont know whymanyy guys have told me that i look good, that i am pretty, but still i dont have a boyfriend or someone.i dont have low self steem, i have a nice and outgoing personality so i dont know what else to do.few guys have try to be with me, but i have rejected them because they are not my type at all..can you help me or give me tips on what am i doing wrong?
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reader, shychick  +, writes (2 June 2009):
i know how u feel babes i do i do but listen i am going through the same crisis and i want u to know keep looking and be positive i havent had a bf 4 2 yrs and its killing so please be strong and remember stay positive around boys/men and stay strong and of course keep on waiting for mr right xx. frm shychick love ya and stay strong and dont break down...............
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Nothing is wrong with you. My advice is that you are young and good things happen to those who wait. You can't rush these things. Think positive and positive things will happen to you. Plus, guys your age arent really looking for a relationship and exposing yourself to guys that just want a physical relationship isnt healthy. Do what makes you happy and the rest will follow
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): girl i have the same problem as you. SCREW THEM!!! we dont need them watch in a few years youll have boys swamping over you and the other girls will have none. give the guys that asked you out a chance. maybe youll find something you really like about them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys (:
i guess ill just have to wait... and enjoy my time being single
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reader, thewiseman +, writes (14 October 2007):
 welcome to my world. I dont think it is much that guys dont want to go out with you. Im sure there are guys like me for example that like you but dont have the courage to ask you. Guys sometimes wont ask a girl out because they believe it will never happen just because they are attractive or popular or a vollyball/basketball/softball/cheerleader star. So im 100% sure that there is a guy in your school that likes you. But he just doesnt have the courage to ask you. all I have to say is give it time (yes i know personally its a pain in the ass and it sux) but trust me if you are who you say you are that perfect man is not far away.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (13 October 2007):
 well, you're certainly modest, so hey.
you're young, love doesn't automatically come knocking, you need to get out there and have fun before you settle down and find the one.
everyone gets lonely but that's life, when you do find a boyfriend, be prepared to be disappointed because it is one big let down, all you are imagining is some perfect species but when reality is, they are not all that.
you've plenty of time for relationships. enjoy being single.
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