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I don't know why all boys find me so unattractive?

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Question - (14 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ilifoxy writes:

I really really really want a boyfriend i have wanted one for ages and its killing me inside, i want someone to talk to, to cuddle and to love but i don't know why all boys find me so unnattractive

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A male reader, thewiseman United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

thewiseman agony auntdang your like only 10. Im 15 and i havent been with a single girl in my life. But I know how you feel. Give it time. You will find someone. And to be honest guys your age will only go for the highschoolers and will not even think about giving anyone else a chance. But in time their values and their needs and wants will change. and someday their will be a guy will look at your beauty from the inside not out

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A female reader, xlipgloss06x United Kingdom +, writes (14 October 2007):

xlipgloss06x agony auntHiyaa Bbe Yuu Are So Young Yet you are not unattractive hunn you have all the time in the world to get a boyfriend you dont need one at your age believe me hunn xx hope this helps ..x

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (14 October 2007):

kenny agony auntI know you are going to hear this alot, but you are so so young, you have got all the time in world for relationships and boyfriends. Who says you are unattractive, because if some boys are saying it at school they probably fancy you. There is an old saying i remember from when i was at school, and that is " you always throw stones at the one you love/fancy" not literally of course. So don't be in to much of a rush to get a boyfriend, relax, have a cool time with your pals and i bet you get a boyfriend when you least expect it.

All the best & good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

put it this way. I'm 13 and ive never had a girlfriend, for similar reasons. a couple of days ago, i had this brilliant thought. ie decided not to give a damn until im 18 and leave school, then people wont know you and you can start again. for now im focusing on work, and when im ready ill find myself a girl. theyll just get in the way at the moment!

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

rcn agony auntdon't rush life. the way you mentioned what you wanted, it almost sounded like you were shopping for a puppy.

You need to feel good about yourself for yourself. Don't look at boys as a way of solving something you're missing, but someone you can share an all ready great life with. If you feel down on yourself, those feelings will actually rub off on others. The better you feel about who you are the more attractive you'll look to others.

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