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writes:Help! My friend saw my phone last week and it had a video of me fingering myself on it. She saw it and now everone in my year nows. But worse than that i was going to send it to a boy that i didnt even now. Everyone is now against me. How can i go back friends with people? thanksx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Ok so you have cr*p friends, but i bet they have done things like this so dont let it get to you. I know that will be hard, but it will be a few days wonder and it will be forgot all about. Just try and keep up a brave face for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Good friend eh? She sounds like a nightmare and you should stay away from her. Are you sure everyone in your year knows? These things tend to feel worse than they actually are. What on earth were you planning to send the video clip to someone for?! That's the worst thing you can do, you should never ever send things like that to people - even sending something like that to a boyfriend is a really bad move. What did you think the boy would think when he received it? He wouldn't have thought 'there's a nice sexy girl, I think I'll ask her out'. No. He would have thought 'she looks cheap and easy and wait until my mates see'. Don't video yourself doing anything on the phone - what if it got lost, you dont know whose hands it could fall into. The only thing you can do is learn from this (never take dodgy pictures or videos of yourself) and deny deny deny... They will forget about it soon enough, and if anyone asks about it, say it was a joke video of two people getting fresh but it definitely wasn't you. I know how you must be feeling, but remember that it really will be forgotton soon so hold onto that thought. Best of luck - you'll be absolutely fine XX
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reader, thewiseman  +, writes (14 October 2007):
 i totally agree with RCN. its was not a very good idead to make it in the first place. And those types of movies can later be used for black mail if someone else would get a hold of a copy. or they could sell it to some perv. kinda like paris hiltons.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 October 2007):
Lesson learned. Delete it. Don't do it again.
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Oh and it's like they've never done that.
Now don't you find it a bit degrading to yourself to send a sexual video to someone you didn't know?
Don't put anything on your phone you don't want to be public knowledge. I was sending text messages, and sent "I love you" to my ex. My girlfriend was not a happy camper all though it was a mistake.
You said she's your friend. If she's telling everyone about your fingering experience, knowing it would cause problems, and it should have been secret information, is she really your friend.
Why are they against you? Is it because of wanting to send it to a boy, or because of the act. If it's the act, they just don't want to admit they take part in a bit of self play as well.
I'd just let it blow over. I don't know if I'd want to be friends with them for treating you badly. Friends don't do that.
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