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51-59,
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writes:I am so hurt and confused and crushed. My true love has cheated on me with her first love and now says she is in love with her and she is married. She has kept me hanging on for 4 months now and giving me hope and mixed signals.We have been together for almost 20 years. I am taking care of her father who is going to die any day now of cancer while she is at our house selling our buisness. How come she doesn't love me more for what i have put up with and what i am doing for her? Is there anything i can do to fix things between us and is there any help for us? Thank you for any advice you can give me.
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reader, Cyg79 +, writes (15 October 2007):
 There is only so much you can do. A relationship is a two way street. If she's not willing to put effort in then its time for you to find someone that is. Its not a healthy relationship if theres no balance, i encourage you to talk with her and if she wants out you have to respect that. besides if your only holding onto what was you will never see what could be.
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reader, thewiseman +, writes (14 October 2007):
 might I suggest going to a reltionship counseling session. that might shed light on some of the problems and the counselor can give you advice and recommendations on correcting it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): well you can not do anything because she did not have any feelings for you. did you know that love is about feelings so if she dont have any for you then there is nothing you can do about it. that is the truth about it. so you just have to be yourself cause there are many fishies in the river which you can go and have one of your choice ok.
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