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writes:A person on msn has been flirting with me...It was fun while it lasted but have been put right off by him! He actually showed me his penis on webcam...it was erected aswel - As i were kinda doing sexy moves for him [regretably]And well i was completely freaked out...I felt sick!I'm kinda concerened for the future though, what if i never get over this sexual fear? But maybe it was something to do with the fact that I'm ALOT younger than this guy...like more than 10 years difference?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHiya 'irish49' Just to inform you, dis perverted person on msn isn't the guy at school! He just looks very similar... But yeah, i suppose i should stop staring at this person and put this whole experience behind me! Thanks again for everyone's support xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Well, we honestly didn't think you would tell your parents But thought it was worth a try. It's obvious chatrooms and your internet activity is important to you and do consume a lot of your life. Just a thought..are there any school clubs, sports, functions you can get involved in to socialize and make new friends with, in the real world? I guess, I'm just seeing a very bored teen girl here with raging hormoness and a lot of energy, who is making poor choices on the internet that is better spent in a more constructive, safer manner. Think about that. About this guy at school..are you implying that this guy from school might 'actually be' your msn penis pervert..or are you just staring because he looks similar to this pervert? If it's just a similarity then stop staring at the guy..because that's rude. If you think he is the perv...stay away from him and do not ask him. He'll never admit it was him, will he. Good luck, dear and remember to always make good choices for yourself.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (17 October 2007):
Wise decision little bird.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you people! Erm i've decided not to tell my parents but to be more wise when on chatrooms! dis sounds kinda daft but ders dis lad at school and he looks VERY similar to that pervert who was talking to me on msn, he's in the same year as me and well because of what happened. I get shivers down my spine whenever he's near me! I tend to stare at him alot too like he's a freak and he's just looking back as if to say 'why you staring at me like that'?
So just a little update for you lol
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reader, shelleywelly +, writes (16 October 2007):
you should block and delete him as he is obviously a man who likes to do disgusting things on the internet.you are only a child and you shouldnt be doin things like that especially not on the internet
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reader, Charley x +, writes (15 October 2007):
 Internet Police right away!!!!!!!!
This carries on block him and delete him dont get freaked out its just a goon being perverted but if it carries on alert someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): You forced yourself to block him?? That usually means you did this act of blocking him, with great relunctance. Oh my, you may be a young female who needs some strict parental controls and guidance with her computer use. Step out from behind that computer, dear and get out have fun with friends...take up basketball, volleyball, a time consuming hobby...that allows you to burn off your exuberant energy and live life in the real world and away from the older perverts who prey on teen girls like yourself. What this man did to you was indecent and legally wrong. Why do you feel regret for 'blocking'him when he shouldn't have been on your msn in the first place? Do you think he liked you because he showed you his 'erect penis'. No, he didn't..he had absolutely no respect for you..he was using you, to get his own self-involved thrills, dear. He is a predator. The next guy who pulls this off may track you down..stop taking chances with your safety and never allow any male of any age to treat you in such a degrading way. I urge you to have fun in the way, girls and boys your age should. With friendships and activities...away from that darned computer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): I dont see the need to tell your parents this time. Just be careful who you pick to speak to and take their age and intentions into account. Dont give away anything personal that may allow strangers to track you. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thanks for all your posts - I knew all along that what he was doing was innapropriate, but that was only when he was doing the flirting bit which i didn't mind too much. I practised my flirting skills with him and to my surprise i actually succeeded and he was enjoying my company!
But yeah, he went a bit too far with me and i've forced myself to block him off msn. He lives in another country, so he aint any danger to me! There isn't any need in telling my parents is there? Thanks again for all your responses x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): If someone can whip their penis out over the internet to an underage girl they have the potential to be very dangerous.I think you must have encouraged him to an extent, at least in a way that he thinks you are interested? Steer clear, you could get yourself into alot of trouble.When you are old enough to understand sexual feelings and grown up relationships then im sure you will have no fear of sexual encounters.Be careful who befriends you on the internet. Your parents should monitor your internet access a bit more closely.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 October 2007):
A girl your age should not be hanging with 10 year older guy who are showing of their penis (or maybe someone else's).
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reader, thewiseman +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Okay. You will eventually get over this "fear" of sexual intimacy. I think it was a little traumatic experience for someone your age. But eventually your mind will mature so instead of sexual intimacy as being "scary" it will be more of a pleasurable and enjoyable experience. I just think this fear you have will go away with age. But, as for the guy, he is kind of old for you. So, just trying to be of help. A word of advice. Block him on MSN and never unblock him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): So a guy in his early 20's showed you his erect penis..on msn. If he's not from your community, I hope you have blocked him! Best to get rid...now. If he's from your town and you are scared you need to talk to your parents....pronto. Hun, I think you should keep all your msn contacts on your computer, to only people (good friends/family) you know real well and that you know in the real world. You put yourself at risk, by chatting it up with weirdos and perverts, online. While it's fun to flirt online, keep that to the boys that are your age and that you trust, as friends. Don't worry, once the shock value of seeing this guy's penis wears off, you won't be forever traumatized. I think you reacted that way, because you weren't expecting it to happen. He was gross and very inappropriate to do this to you. One thing, do not act sexy and flirty with older men anymore. That just spelles trouble and you can't handle it due to your age. Be strong, keep it together and learn alife lesson from this. Good luck, dear
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