Do you think this man has lost interest in me?
Q. Last spring, I hit it off with a guy, who was charming and doting and looked at me like the world would end if he turned away. After a few weeks we had our first kiss and slept together. We had a couple more great nights talking and drinking and ...
A. 21 February 2011: Yes, it does sound as if he has lost interest. Don't settle, if you feel like he's stringing you along, then he probably is.... (read in full...)
Living together for over a year, and I STILL haven't met his kids!
Q. Over 12 months living together and still no sign of me meeting his kids (teenagers) despite us living with mine (also teenagers). I have asked twice to meet his kids. The first time after about 6 months and again recently. Each time the whole t...
A. 1 February 2011: Perhaps he's not proud of something about you, is there anything about you he could be ashamed of? Vice versa, he could be lacking pride in his children and embarrassed to introduce you to them.... (read in full...)
Why does sex still always hurt?
Q. Whenever I do it with my boyfriend I hurt and bleed. There's always enough foreplay that I am well-lubricated, but it always hurts. Any ideas?...
A. 22 November 2010: Maybe you're not as lubricated as you think you are or need to be and/or you're not relaxed enough. Supplement with lubricating jelly, breath deeply and let go of any anxiety and tension. ... (read in full...)
Why does he keep asking me out and then cancelling?
Q. This is more of a rant than anything else. But I'm just so confused and a bit pissed off to be honest. I met this guy online (mistake number 1) and we talked for months before meeting for the first time. The first meet went fine, it was over coffee ...
A. 21 November 2010: Communicate. I suggest addressing your concern in an email to him, that way he's not caught off guard and able to think about it and give you an honest explanation and not just an excuse. You'll get clarity and he'll be made aware of your ... (read in full...)
Can you find true love in your mistress? should I leave my wife and marry her?
Q. i have been dating my mistress for 3 years. we decided that its time to take the next step. i am in the middle of a project abroad that will be completed in march 2011. i decided to file for a divorce then. in three years we have seen good times an...
A. 21 November 2010: In my opinion, there are no yes or no answers to your questions and there is no right or wrong as far as love is concerned. Every person’s situation, feelings and experiences are unique.
I believe one should follow their heart. Everyone deserves... (read in full...)
How do I work with a relationship with such a big age difference.
Q. I am 18...in love with a 48 year old man... We haven't told anyone about it... I'm really confused...I do love him and i wanna be with him more than anything....but i still don't know how it will work out... What should I do?...
A. 20 November 2010: Oh honey, no, please don't set your heart on a married man. Statistics are very low the mistress wins.
Food for thought: If he can claim to love you while still married to his wife who he once professed his love to and married in front of his fami... (read in full...)
Gifts for a 14 year old boy?
Q. me and my bf have been dating for 2 years now and i dont know what to get him for christmas and i dont know what he is getting me and i need some ideas for christmas gifts for a 2 year relationship and me and him are both 14....
A. 20 November 2010: -cologne
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Do I ask him outright if he is seeing someone else?
Q. I met this guy on a dating site, we have been seeing each other since september,i really like him, only see him once or twice a week as we don't live near each other and he works late afternoons, i know it's not very long, but i know he is still on ...
A. 20 November 2010: If you require an exclusive relationship with one person, meaning it's not acceptable to you for that person to be seeing other people at the same time, then yes, ask him outright his intentions.
Ask if he is interested in pursuing a long ter... (read in full...)
Should I ring him, I don't want to seem needy?
Q. ok this is my first real mature relationship, with a guy, yes ive had relationships bfore but not like this, hes older then me by 9 yrs though i feel like hes my age, i dont notice the age difference except that he is very busy in business and work ...
A. 15 November 2010: Will your ringing him burn whatever minimal airtime he has left? If not, then yes, ring him. Otherwise, why not just sms? If you know what hotel he's staying at, find the number and ring him there, that would be a pleasant surprise and show him that ... (read in full...)
How long do I wait? Or should I let him know I'd like to see him again?
Q. Okay Dear Cupid I need your help! I went on a date with this guy who previously blew me off, I let him know it was his second chance but he wasn't getting a third. Well I didn't expect the date to go that well being as he blew me off before and I...
A. 15 November 2010: I suggest you don't wait. Text (since that's your usual communication) him an invitation to meet up for coffee or drinks. If he accepts, use that meeting as your opportunity to show him how desirable you are, be yourself, focus on him and his ... (read in full...)
Even though people have reassured me so many times, I still feel so insecure about my penis size. How do I get over this?
Q. I just can't get over this fear and paranoia that girls are going to make fun of me or dump me because my penis is less than average sized. For what information is worth, I've got a 4 inch, yes that's when it IS erect, penis with less than satisf...
A. 15 November 2010: Size does not matter to women who love and care for the men they're with i.e. you will not lose a woman who loves you due to your size.... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband back before it's too late?
Q. Ok so I am still married and we have a child together but we are not together. We moved and we had some problem before we moved so when we moved I left him because I thought we were over.he never wanted to talk to me just play his Xbox. So when we ...
A. 15 November 2010: If he says he's not 'in' love with you anymore, then you should move on. Time heals all wounds. You cannot make someone fall in love with you. If you love someone, set them free. If they return, they're yours. If they don’t, they never were... (read in full...)
How do I work with a relationship with such a big age difference.
Q. I am 18...in love with a 48 year old man... We haven't told anyone about it... I'm really confused...I do love him and i wanna be with him more than anything....but i still don't know how it will work out... What should I do?...
A. 15 November 2010: Truly follow your heart and the feelings deep down in your core. There is no right or wrong as far as love is concerned.... (read in full...)
Do you think a married man would visit his other woman of 6 years thousands of miles apart?
Q. I have an affair online with a married man of 6 years. We plan to meet in 2011 for the first time. Our relationship has grown so deep, we fight and we mend. His wife knew about it and his children but despite of it he continues his relationship ...
A. 15 November 2010: It is possible he plans to visit you. It is deeper than just a sexual encounter but do not lose sight of the agreement you’re both in that he will not be leaving his wife and family.... (read in full...)
My man is moody and is increasingly difficult to deal with
Q. I'm almost 47yrs and have been seeing my partner for just over 2 years. We don't live together and live around an hour apart. Over the time he has had moody times when he's just left my house for no apparent reason, or slept on the sofa. L...
A. 15 November 2010: He could be bi-polar or have a serotonin imbalance. You could suggest he see a doctor for diagnosis and receive therapy and medication.
He could have family or monetary issues he's trying to deal with that you're not aware of. Pry a little i... (read in full...)
Ex sent me an email, what am I supposed to make of it?
Q. heyy ! My relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years ended about a month ago. It really meant alot to me. But we thought that was the best for us. We haven't spoken to each toher since then but today he sent me this mail. I don't know what to reply ...
A. 8 November 2010: He misses you and is having second thoughts about the breakup. Don't try to imagine what he's thinking. Follow your own heart...would you truly like to rekindle the relationship or not? Revisit why it ended in the first place...have you both changed ... (read in full...)
Would anyone else see this as nosey?
Q. so i had to go with my parents to visit neighbors because they invited us..i am in my mid twenties and pretty much come to the conclusion i don't like them because most of them in the family are very stuck up and judgemental. We went to be nice more ...
A. 8 November 2010: Your neighbour's line of questioning or conversation isn't uncommon at all for people socializing and getting to know one another.
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Should I wait, hopeful... or just move on?
Q. Hi, Currently I am in a great dilemma. I met this girl in a social networking site. I am an artist and she is too. She lives in Europe and me in Canada. At first I saw her work in net and I was really really moved to see her paintings. I felt a...
A. 8 November 2010: She does not hold similar feelings towards you as you do for her. She's being very courteous, polite and nice to you merely to maintain a friendship she obviously considers special.
I would imagine your constant declaration of love is making i... (read in full...)
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