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Should I see a doctor?
Q. hey im asking u guys for an answer cause i want to know if what i expeirenced the other night is what everbody is telling me i did. the other night i was at home now b4 i say anything else let me just say i have a very stressful life im a single ...
A. 18 September 2009: I concur...go see a doctor... (read in full...)
My ex hates me but I want a friendship
Q. i talked to my ex last night. he was saying he just wanted to clear the air with us. i blew him off and told him i didnt want a friendship. he got really upset and started bringing up problems with our past relationship. we ended up in a full on ...
A. 18 September 2009: I'm Jamaican and when we say "carrying feelings"..we mean hating people...or malice if you rather...its a heavy load...and you are welcome... (read in full...)
My ex hates me but I want a friendship
Q. i talked to my ex last night. he was saying he just wanted to clear the air with us. i blew him off and told him i didnt want a friendship. he got really upset and started bringing up problems with our past relationship. we ended up in a full on ...
A. 17 September 2009: by law it doesnt matter whether you give consent or not....its carnal abuse as you are not at the age...at that time to give consent...and also whether or not it sounds ridiculous its the law and it is rape....and I did not say you were too youung I ... (read in full...)
How soon into a relationship should I reveal I'm a virgin?
Q. Hi cupid people, I know another 40 year old virginity rant but ah well - tis unique cos its all about me this time :) Basically I am a 24 (and 3 quarters) year old virgin although I'm not terrible looking and I have had ex's who have offered to ...
A. 16 September 2009: I dont know about you...but if I'm going to get into a relationship with anyone and I see where its going...like if its turning out to become intimate....I just tell them know I'm a virgin....if the guy that you are with runs for whatever reason i ... (read in full...)
why hasn't he come to get his stuff yet?
Q. My boyfriend broke up a year long relationship with me two weeks ago, saying "I don't see a future with you, it's not you, it's me, still wanna be friends, blah blah blah..." So, I was upset but I'm moving on. The thing is, he's doing friendly ...
A. 16 September 2009: he left his things for when and if he decides his mind he can come around and has his things as an excuse for that....from my point of veiw that guy doesnt know what he wants but I cant draw that conclusion since I do not know him.....if you want ... (read in full...)
My ex hates me but I want a friendship
Q. i talked to my ex last night. he was saying he just wanted to clear the air with us. i blew him off and told him i didnt want a friendship. he got really upset and started bringing up problems with our past relationship. we ended up in a full on ...
A. 16 September 2009: well I ought to be objective so here is the thing...both of you are too immature for a serious relationship...and by the way why were you both having this arguement in the first place didnt you say you were in a relationship...another thing....in ... (read in full...)
Why do I get the feeling I need to pee when I have sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend of over a year and a half. Everytime when we have sex, he always plays with my clit. But I keep getting the feeling like I'm going to pee or something and have to make him stop. He says that he wants to see if I would ...
A. 16 September 2009: you are or where about to "cum" or ejaculate as the other writer says....next time just relax and let everything go as it will...if you get tense it may not happen and you wont fell the intense pleasure you have missed out on for a while...good look ... (read in full...)
Addicted to lying: how do I stop?
Q. I seem to have a problem lying. I'm a bad liar. You can totally tell when I'm lying. I want to stop and have tried multiple times but in the end I always cycle back. It's not even about big things, it could be something small like I didn't lock the ...
A. 16 September 2009: when i was your age I kept on telling lies like that for no apparant reason..i was what you'd call an incorrigible liar...I'm religion so I prayed....and told myself I have to stop cause i dont want when I'm telling the truth or am in serious ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to make a man go crazy in bed?
Q. Ok so i no how to please a man.its very simple.i no it depends on the man, but what kind of things can i do to make a man go crazy for?what guys love the most?clothes on and off.touching and not touching.im very experienced so im up for anything.any ...
A. 16 September 2009: yea I agree with the others...I think the ears are sensitive also..and some men like when you nibble on there nipples...also if not physical contact...might be a strip tease might be good...but you'll have to be sexy....and even if you dont think ... (read in full...)
In your opinion whats the best birth control method?
Q. Okay so I am an 18 year old female i have never been on birth control before and was wondering if any one knew how to determine which form is the best for you any suggestions? I was thinking of trying the patch but don't know if its effective or not ...
A. 16 September 2009: the condom is the best birth control method...its 99.9% efficent...birth control can cause side effects and all and condoms are made from varying materials in case you are allergic to one...by the way....with condoms...apart from birth control you ... (read in full...)
Taking our bedroom secrets to the webcam!
Q. hi all, I don't know where to start. My husband (of 3 yrs) wants us to take our bedroom secrets to webcam. I'm confused about it all, I used to think its all wrong but now its like a big question mark. Let's say if I was to do it how many people ...
A. 27 July 2009: I suggests you stay far away from it...I beleive what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom...might be it wouldn't be a great thing since you were doing it with your husband but if your in a respectable job or something like that and it found ... (read in full...)
I found my 40 year old husband in bed with a blonde 20 year old!
Q. What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girl being young, blonde everything he would like, he gets paid about 4K a month and his credit card bill was higher than usual so i dont kno...
A. 27 July 2009: leave the guy and take half of what he owns and you know he still have to support his children...I'm sorry but you caught him read handed...thats infedility....I dont know if you could live iwth it but every time I looked at him or i saw him lying ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by saying "you know you owe me"? I'm freaked out!
Q. Me and this guy had a huge crush on each other. He is very popular and handsome. All the women wants him and he has slept around so many times. We met at work. Anyway, things didn't work out especially since I found out he is married. We didn't ...
A. 27 July 2009: I think he is resentful that he has been rejected or he didn't get what he's used to get from women freely and with little cojolimg....all i can say is to tell him to leave you the hell alone and be serious about it....might be even threaten to tell ... (read in full...)
My first sexual experience and I came almost straight away...Do I have some kind of sexual 'defect'?
Q. Hello to all. I am 27 years old had sex for the first time. I manage doing foreplay for more than 25 Min's but the bad experience is that i cum with in 4-5 movements after putting my pe... into her cu.. Can any body suggest me out whether is it a ...
A. 25 July 2009: no...its usually that way for a guy...not usually....at your first encounter...you'll always cum quickly....then as you contniue you start to last longer and longer...you dont have any sexual defect.....27 and a virgin?...thats just so kool...I like ... (read in full...)
Ideas for bedroom fun that doesn't involve intercourse?
Q. Recently when my man and I are messing around, he asks "what do you want me to do to you?"... I've come up with a couple replies but I need more!!! * Sidenote were trying to postpone intercourse until later on in the relationship so thats kinda o...
A. 16 July 2009: I apologise for my answer before this...I did not notice "bedroom"...welll...you could always give him lap dances...if yuou haven't tried that..hopefully thing dont get out of control from that...you can play card games that leads to one being ... (read in full...)
Ideas for bedroom fun that doesn't involve intercourse?
Q. Recently when my man and I are messing around, he asks "what do you want me to do to you?"... I've come up with a couple replies but I need more!!! * Sidenote were trying to postpone intercourse until later on in the relationship so thats kinda o...
A. 16 July 2009: umm...first of all the temptation may be greater if you guys remain alone together in a pvt place lke in your apartment , house or whatever...so i suggest that yoo keep it in public areas...you guys could go on picnics inthe park or to thebeach or ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to ask but I want oral sex
Q. iam married from past two years and have a lil boy..right from my marriage my husband has never done oral on me although i have done almost everytime.im too shy to ask for it but really want it too...dont know how to deal !!...
A. 11 July 2009: well its your husband and in a marriage I think you shouldn't be shy or intimidated to ask your partner for things especailly sexually things...however....you could like one night or something playfully ask him if he has a problem with perfroming ... (read in full...)
I get turned on by boy's FEET!
Q. I am 13 years old. I am turning 14 on july 11. I am scared that I am gay. I do not get turned on by anything from girls but I do get turned on by (BOY'S) Feet, but that is the only thing I get turned on from, not there private parts. Do you gu...
A. 11 July 2009: It canmaybe just a fetish...you dont have to be gay...I get turned by a lot of things in girls but I"m not sexaully attracted to them..its normal I would say.... (read in full...)
I don't like porn! Is that so wrong?
Q. I don't like porn. Is that so wrong? I've read many questions about porn, and the responses are always something like "Get over it, it's just a video, porn is great, watch it with him, grow up, all men do it...". But I don't like it. I've watched...
A. 11 July 2009: no...... (read in full...)
Two weeks late...I have to ask the question..Does these symptoms sound like pregnancy?
Q. I know that none of you are doctors or a pregnancy test and i do know that really need to go get tested to find out for certain but hear me out. Ive been ttc for the past two months. Last month my period was three weeks late, during the three weeks ...
A. 11 July 2009: ok....maybe you are pregnant...maybe you aren't but the best way to be sure is to take a pregnancy test...yea you might have those symtoms which may draw the conclusion of pregnacy but maybe you are just stressed out...or maybe its still in your ... (read in full...)
When a guy says, while holding a girl's hand that he caught a big fish, what does he mean?
Q. Just curious.. What does it mean when you're planning a fishing trip and the gal says, 'Let's get up early enough to go out and catch some big fish.' Then the guy looks over, holds her hand and says, 'I already did catch a big fish.' Oh, an...
A. 11 July 2009: Well i would say he meant that he has caught one of the biggest or best fish available and maybe be he is well satisfied...you know the saying...there are lots of fishes in the ocean/water..whatever... (read in full...)
Love him so much but the sex isn't good!
Q. Well, I've been a relationship with my boyfriend for about two years. When I first met him I was instantly attracted to him, but the first time we had sex it wasn't good. I asked him if he was a virgin and he said no, so I asked him how many ...
A. 22 June 2009: ok...I see your problem here...I suggest that you teach him how to make love to you or how to have sex with you...show him what turns you on...where to touch when to touch...if possible you can use a sex toy to demonstrate to him on what to do if ... (read in full...)
If girls can't get over an ex does it mean it was true love?
Q. why girls can't get over an ex relationship and move on is that mean they are weak or they know how to really love which include if I love I'll never forget?...
A. 6 June 2009: Not exactly....not because you can't stop thinking abt a person doesn't mean its true love...it could be that thats what you got used to and just dont want to let it go whether it was a good relationship or not...however it could have been the real ... (read in full...)
Should I tell a one night stand I'm pregnant with him?
Q. We had sex a couple of weeks ago.. I wasn't really supposed to happen, but we were both drunk and I went to his home and that's pretty much how it happened. It didn't really mean that much to me, until I found out I'm pregnant.. I am on the pill, ...
A. 6 June 2009: yes...I doesn't matter if it was a one night stand or not...always let the potential father know whats going on...if he then decides he does not want to father the child then you take the next step from there.... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife give me a golden shower?
Q. My wife wants to pee on me. Should I let her? It would probably turn me on, so I don't see any reason not to let her if it makes her happy and horny, I just don't want it in my mouth, which should be my choice. Any thoughts please?...
A. 6 June 2009: ok...as she said...do it and if you dont want to let any get in your mouth...dont let it....let her know before hand....so in the middle it she doesn't tell you to open your mouth or something like that.
And just so you know....urine is sterile.... (read in full...)
What is love? What does it mean?
Q. i'm 16 and in high school. i was wondering what is love? i know its a strong feeling you have towards someone, but how do you know when your in love?...
A. 31 May 2009: ok...I presume your talking about the intimate...romantic sort of love....I dont know how to describe it...I dont think there is a way to define it but when your in love you care real deeply for that person...you'd do anything for them to make them ... (read in full...)
Should I ignore him eyeing up other women?
Q. I have a new partner, every time we are out, i notice him ogling other women who are younger, and thinner. He says he finds me gorgeous and attractive. So why does he do it? last night he spent all evening eyeing up women, and practically...
A. 31 May 2009: ok...my take on this...I don't find anything wrong with my bf looking at other women..but looking how....I do it too, seeing that I'm bi....but ogling...staring continuously..to the point where you feel non existent...is just wrong...you have to ... (read in full...)
Am I right to trust him again?
Q. long story short, my boyfriend and i had been going out, my best friend was always very 'friendly' with him and caused a lot of problems, after we broke up they both snuck around behind my back and it didnt last long. she told me it was because she ...
A. 31 May 2009: Ever hear the saying you can forgive but cant forget?....I don't think that's completely true cause a part of forgetting is forgiving..and it seems that lady...I use the term loosely...is making it hard for you to forgive...so I suggest you try to ... (read in full...)
Dad wants me to be a nurse..I don't want that! How can I get him off my back over this?
Q. i need some help, i posted on here before about this but here i go again!! I am 20, a student nurse in 1st year at uni and i donot want to do this any longer. i don't know why, i just don't want to continue to do this, or be a nurse, which is making ...
A. 31 May 2009: Hello!!!...If you dont want to be a nurse...then dont be...yeah..you might want to please your dad...but it makes no sense goign into a career that every morning you wake up and realise thats what you have to do and you're heartfalls and so does ... (read in full...)
Got stoned and had unprotected sex! What should I do??
Q. I'm am 15 years old, i have not done any drugs for 5 months. A couple days ago, my friends had some weed, so i smoked it. A friend(19) I haven't talked to for a long time called me, and I told him I was high. He was like really, well want me to come ...
A. 31 May 2009: ok....first of all...you're only worried that you might be pregnant...well yea its a big deal...but why are you on drugs??!!!...come on girl..get off it that thing is bad or your health..can kill you...please dont do it again....now with your other ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance that I am pregnant?
Q. My partner and i recently had sex and he ejaculated in the same condom more than once. However i was unaware of this, could there be a chance that i am pregnant?...
A. 30 May 2009: what do you mean he ejaculated in the same condom twice?....you guys used the same condom twice at different times?....okay thats just wrong...shouldn't happen....and again...you dont have to be pregnant unless of course the condom broke...however ... (read in full...)
I really want a baby!
Q. Im thirteen and i want a baby but dont want to have sex, what should i do ?...
A. 30 May 2009: wait until your atleats 5 years older before considering about having children...whether you want to have them yourself or otherwise...do you know how hard it is to raise a child...time consuming...tiring..think about the sleepless nights you'll ... (read in full...)
How do I have a vaginal orgasm?
Q. I have clitoral orgasms but I have no idea how to have a vaginal one! Anyone any advice? Different positions? How? Thankyou x...
A. 30 May 2009: I dont know but I think this link might help you with your problems....try it and see if it helps.
http://www.allsexguide.com/orgasm-woman.htm... (read in full...)
Should I tell my dad I'm dating? He won't let me out...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i love him alot and i know he loves me too. the problem is that my dad doesnt know about us. i wasnt allowed to date until i turned 16 and i already did so im allowed to have one by his set of rules. ...
A. 30 May 2009: My dad treats me completely the same way as you and mind you....I'm 18.....He doesn't allow me to date either...the slightest mention of a guy and he's flying off the edge....he doesn't even allow me to go out....unless of course it has something to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my dad I'm dating? He won't let me out...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i love him alot and i know he loves me too. the problem is that my dad doesnt know about us. i wasnt allowed to date until i turned 16 and i already did so im allowed to have one by his set of rules. ...
A. 30 May 2009: I'm going through the same thing as you. I'm 18 and my dad doesn't allow me to date...even the mention of a guy sends him off the edge....I've been dating this guy for over a year now and he wants me to tell my dad but I know all hell is going to ... (read in full...)
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