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writes:Recently when my man and I are messing around, he asks "what do you want me to do to you?"... I've come up with a couple replies but I need more!!! * Sidenote were trying to postpone intercourse until later on in the relationship so thats kinda off limits Reply to this Question
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (18 July 2009):
 Ooo i love these questions.
You can light some candles and put on some soft music grab some Durex Play massage gel and mess around giving each other massarges. My boyfriend tried this with me and insted of giving me an amazing massage he decided to make tellytubby hair styles on me with the gel, don't do that.. its not a turn on but the massage is :)
You could do a sexy strip tease and really tease him, boys love it, they just end up pulling your clothes off!
You could get some choclate, cream and strawberrys and have fun licking them off each other!
You could take a shower with each other or a nice walm bubbly bath. Don't overfill the bath, i had fun explaining that to the dude fitting a new floor, why are new houses fitted with carpet in the bathroom ??
Just basically mess around, its ment to be fun in the bedroom not serious! Act like your 17 again!
Role play is a good one too :P
Livia
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 If you're saving sex for later, you might want to avoid a "slippery slope" situation.
I think that you and your boyfriend should discuss exactly what the limits are going to be.
Nothing wrong with kissing... but sometimes sex just happens spontaneously, with no prior plans. If you do decide to do it, PLEASE use protection! :)
Hope this helps...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): a) ask him to give you a massage...with his lips.
b) "i want you to just relax, close your eyes, and enjoy the ride" - this one is a good spin on his original objective ;)
This is a tough question seeing as we don't really know the things that youve already done with the guy, and seing as sex is out of the question (completely fair - stay strong!) the sassy remarks are limited to teasing flashes into the future and whats to come. literaly.
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reader, Tarianna  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 I apologise for my answer before this...I did not notice "bedroom"...welll...you could always give him lap dances...if yuou haven't tried that..hopefully thing dont get out of control from that...you can play card games that leads to one being naked...if your into oral sex or those things you guys could experiment on that....you could make love...and regardless of what people think...that doesn't really involves intercourse...its just the caressing of the body and exploration trying to please each other without the actual penetration...and that will help your sexual relationship later on cause in addition to having sex both parties will know their partners "hot" spot so it will be a bonus then...again...I hope my advice were helpful and I wish you luck.
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 me and the love of my life are waiting till marriege to have sex so we have come up with a few ways to keep it interesting. for example a few nights back she hand cuffed me to the bed and had me watch while she did things to herself.
what stuff have you tried so far?
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reader, Tarianna +, writes (16 July 2009):
umm...first of all the temptation may be greater if you guys remain alone together in a pvt place lke in your apartment , house or whatever...so i suggest that yoo keep it in public areas...you guys could go on picnics inthe park or to thebeach or to a not very secluded lake...you could go window shopping..go to the mall....wash you car together..go bike riding..or spontaneously plan on touring your area..just walk aimlessly and mindlessly...mind you..dont venture onto private property....just try and keep things from being too sexual or i dont know if this will be hard on not try not to turn him on not to say you do that intentionally..just saying...if you know when you look at hima certain way he gets aroused quit that....just think fun something you would do with your kid brother r siste r or relative that can be fun for adults or you guys can make fun videos or something along those lines...I hope my advice was helpful to you
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