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Good age to get married?

Q.   what age would be a good age to get married?...

A.   4 November 2010: Age can be One of the factor to be considered before marrying. the ideal age i think is 24 for a girl. this is because :- 1. by that you shall finished your education. 2. You would enjoyed Your life to the maximum. 3. You Would be mat... (read in full...)

Online guy won't talk to me when he's at home. Why is that?

Q.   I met this guy through a dating site and we have been chatting online for about 3 months now. We chat almost everyday. He always leaves me offline messages like, 'Hi, beautiful. How's ur day? I miss u.' We see each other on cam often. He says he ...

A.   4 November 2010: Its for sure he is married. just tell him the truth and see whats his reply... (read in full...)

He called me fat!!!!

Q.   So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...

A.   4 November 2010: @tennisstar. I would feel bad Only he meant it. now as for the poster if i was in her place n IF i was fat i would surely feel embarrassed but if i know am not fat then why should i? it MAYBE that his boyfriend was joking with him and not seriousl... (read in full...)

How come I feel like something’s wrong and he’s being really distant?

Q.   Right now I’m in a 3 month relationship and everything is working out for the most part. He just got his license and is looking for a job. I have had both things for a while and started new job. Anyways our relationship started out great, we texed ...

A.   4 November 2010: The only solution is Communication!! yes!! you should try talking to him. tell him how you feel without him. am sure he will try his best so as not to make you re feel the same. you feel he is being distant because the fact that you used to text ... (read in full...)

He called me fat!!!!

Q.   So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...

A.   4 November 2010: No i don't think your boyfriend is wrong. you yourself have seen how good he has been towards you and as for trust its only You who can know about it. he call you fat but i think he did not mean it. mayB Compared to his friends you are fat. mayB he ... (read in full...)

How do guys feel about pointy noses?

Q.   Do guys love it when girls have pointed nose? or they simply hate it. am a girl. my nose is very pointed just like the indian hero ''saif ali khan'' i really don't like the way it is. Especially when i looked myself on the side, i feel disgusting. i ...

A.   3 November 2010: thanks to all for your advice i liked it... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant from giving head and then he fingers me?

Q.   okay so im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months. and i give him "head" but im not on birth control. and then he usually fingers me.. can i get pregnant? ...

A.   3 November 2010: you will get pregnant only If the sperm entered your vagina. after he cummed if he had touched his penis and the sperm got into his hand then he fingers you then yeah there is a chance that you are pregnant... (read in full...)

Do men feel the pain of a breakup?

Q.   Confused and hurting... It's only been two weeks but the pain of my bf breaking up with me seems greater now than it was that nite he said we're breaking up. Why? Can anyone explain it to me, it seems I cry over any little thing that reminds me of ...

A.   3 November 2010: hmmm, well you are having the pain after two weeks break up. its quite normal. i once in the same situation as you are now. i broke up with my ex when i found out that he was cheating on me. at first i did not feel the pain but yeah after a few days ... (read in full...)

I have no idea what to do with my husband's best female friend.

Q.   I am married to a wonderful and caring man and have a good marriage. But when it comes to his female best friend, he becomes her protector and caused stress to our marriage. When I met him 10 years ago, she was already in his life for 10 year...

A.   3 November 2010: well maybe your husband do not have any wrong intention. But the girl, MOST probably, according to me is trying to get the attention of your husband and his mum. she might want them to believe that she is better than you and in fact she is ... (read in full...)

Why does my boyfriend not want oral sex?

Q.   Do guys love oral sex? Why does my bf does not want me to give him oral? we never did it but am really looking forward to it...

A.   2 November 2010: well he gives me cunnilingus however he says that oral on men is more porn rather than making love to one's wife... (read in full...)

Does my cousin love me or just lust over me?

Q.   hi cupid, i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :* i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that h...

A.   31 October 2010: thanks rabbit for the few tips. i surely going to try it out... (read in full...)

B/f dates all these other girls but calls me his "wife"

Q.   I have a boyfriend who loves me a lot and whom i love a lot too. he has had 2 other girls in his life which he truly loved. am the 3rd one. apart from that he dates 4 girls with whom he does not has true intention. it happens that last time i...

A.   31 October 2010: i want to correct this question and its title as well. its not that he ''dates''. he was dating now he has stopped ever since he met me... (read in full...)

I'm a girl who loves porn!

Q.   When I was about sixteen, like most people, i got curious about sex and so i started searching the internet for sexual videos. People always talk about how horrible it is for guys to watch porn and i feel like being a girl...its even worse for me ...

A.   31 October 2010: oh no that is quite normal. in fact there are many girls who do watch porn. now it depends on your caste. maybe in your religion we take it as a sin. in this case you should stop so as not to hurt your parents. else its quite normal for a girl of ... (read in full...)

Impossible to penetrate!

Q.   hi well im 18 and i have tried to hold off sex with my bf for almost a year now and my bf and i have decided itz time to give it a try... he tried to finger me but it hurt but i thought it was normal so i just went with it. Then he tried to ...

A.   31 October 2010: there's nothing wrong with you. you are just too tights. he has to apply more force. and make sure you are well-aroused when you are having intercourse as this help the penis to slide inside much easier... (read in full...)

Does my cousin love me or just lust over me?

Q.   hi cupid, i know my story is a bit long. but please go through it. i really needs your help. thanks in advance peeps! :* i have a cousin, my mother's cousin's son!! lets call him Sam. he is 24. i am quite close to him but not that close that h...

A.   31 October 2010: @ bernard.. i did not expect him to do so at that moment. it was totally unexpected. i was seized and i think he should take the first step like black rabbit mention am trying to make him run after me but can that have a negative effect as well?... (read in full...)

Boyfriend just grabbed me and "did it". He didn't see anything wrong with that!

Q.   Hi All - I need some insight on this. So yesterday I went to see my bf and we both knew we were hooking for sex before he leaves for the weekend to see his mother. Anyway, when i got there he was just uninterested. I touched him, he didnt touch m...

A.   30 October 2010: i don't agree at all with carra. she has no right to be so racism. not only man that are muslim are rapist. there are many more especially christian. in fact i would say mauritian guys respect their wife or daughter a lot. why do they prevent ... (read in full...)

Is it his fault or my fault that I don't trust him?

Q.   im having a boy friend.loving him from past 3 years.he shouts at me of course i even do,but wen i shout he cant tolerate..he stares at girls talk wid tem in the nights but he gets angry even if i talk to a boy casually.he used to go near one girls ...

A.   29 October 2010: i don't think he is trustworthy. if your bf truly loves you, he would not like ''scold'' you for another girl or he would simply not do things that you don't like and that hurt you. but this is quite surprising that he can't see you talk with ... (read in full...)

Why won't he perform oral on me?

Q.   My boyfriend simply won't go down on me. We have been sexually active for over 3 months and I've received it maybe 6 times. I give him head all the time, hoping to get some in return, but he claims he just has to be in the mood for it. I can't stand ...

A.   29 October 2010: well some guys are really like delicate about these things. maybe he hate the idea of kissing a place where you know many dirty thing come out. it may also happen that you are having some dirty smell there. you may say its clean but you can never ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a married woman but won't leave my wife

Q.   I am in love with a married woman .How can I stop thinking about her so much. She is driving me crazy..I love her but will never leave my wife. Please help me!!!...

A.   29 October 2010: it is not love it is lust. why don't you want to leave your wife?? simply because you love her!! and remember any guy cannot love two women at the same time. i think you should go away from her, avoid her and spend the most of your time with your ... (read in full...)

Why should I sit and watch another woman run his life when I can't?

Q.   Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. We love one another and we are unseparable. I am 19 and he is 24. He has a 4 year old daughter who I have learned to love very much. I hate his ex girlfriend because sometimes I feel like she only ...

A.   29 October 2010: he is attracted to her just because oh her daughter. many men craves for their child. once you are married and you get your child i think everything will be alright then. but he won't stop craving for that child because remember its HIS child. in ... (read in full...)

Why do men think of women as slaves?

Q.   why do men think of women as slaves?...

A.   29 October 2010: it is because man is more powerful that woman. and they make use of this power in a wrong way towards women. the latter an not do anything just supporting. however we must never forget that there are certain woman who has fight for their right. t... (read in full...)

The only woman I have ever loved doesn't want me to contact her anymore

Q.   I AM A FN EMOTIONAL DISASTER! I am still in love with The Only Woman I Have Ever Loved, and while she informed me that she did not feel the same for me I accepted it and have tried with all my strength and know-how to respect and honor her demand ...

A.   29 October 2010: i think you should get used to another girl. the fact that you were too attached with her make you feel very lonely now that she has left you. why don't you make friend with a new girl and pass your time mostly with her? this will help you to get ... (read in full...)

I am very much in love with my cousin.

Q.   I am very much in love with my cousin. i really want to make her mine but she says she does not love me. i tried all the way. first i winked at her ( it was before [proposing her) she just smiled away. is it because she is interested? or she took it ...

A.   17 October 2010: but that is actually the problem i really love her. i can't live without her. what if i try talking to her? would that work? am currently using one of my friend (female one) to get in touch with you guys. i have asked her too for her advice and she ... (read in full...)

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