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Saw a text telling another woman he loves her!

Q.   My boyfreind and i have been together for 2 years a couple of weeks a go i went into hi9s phone and saw a text telling another woman that he loves her. I know he loves me, but sometimes when i say to him I LOVE YOU he doesnt even answer me,he loo...

A.   2 November 2006: its him you need to ask sounds like your man is up to no good for a start im sorry to say ...... or he just could be enjoying the fact he is getting nice tex messagers so why dont you try sending him a few but if it were me id do my best to have it ... (read in full...)

She had anal sex with him, but won't with me!

Q.   Anal Sex my girlfriend had anal sex before i was with her she said it hurt so much never again but now i'm kinding of thinking well if she tried it with him why not with me am i being mean to think that? ...

A.   2 November 2006: say you went to a resterant and had something you really hated you wouldnt order it again would you well same for your girlfriend she tryed it and hate it so dont push her just enjoy her after all you got one enterance be happy with that ... (read in full...)

We made out and went out a few times - now she just wants to be friends! What should I do?

Q.   Hello, Well, this is my situation. I have known a girl very distantly for around two years, we were previously both in very long term relationships, but I always admired her from afar, and had a very platonic email correspondence with her. An...

A.   2 November 2006: sounds like this girl is just having a little fun she may want her freedom for a while but at least she has been honist just go with the flow you never no we all change our minds sometimes good luck with it ... (read in full...)

After we broke up..he still flirts with me! Does he still have feelings for me?

Q.   my boyfriend and i just broke up about a month or two ago..we werent always kissing or making out or ne thing like that we would go to the movies flirt hold hands hug kiss u kno all that we went out for a total of 5 months we told each other we ...

A.   19 October 2006: sounds like this lad does have strong feelings for you maybe he wants to get back with you but afrid to ask ... (read in full...)

What defines friendship from attraction?

Q.   I've never been able to have a friendship with any guy properly because I always become atttracted to them, or think I'm attracted to them. What defines friendship from attraction? Is it just the sexual stuff? How can I stop myself from repeatedly ...

A.   18 October 2006: a person can be ugly on the outside but on the inside they can be a spark that can make you fall for them in a way . maybe because you have got to no this person you have become close and atracted to them ... (read in full...)

What attracts my boyfriend, vulnerability or nudity?

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 months and things have been going really well. Last night, though, I was a bit confused. We were lying in bed watching tv and started kissing, then he started to remove all my clothes, but he wouldn’t ...

A.   18 October 2006: it would anoy me to but mabey he is shy about his own body so he is checking yours out just crack a joke about it so he dont feel to much under pressure if it gets to strange for you just leave him dont stress yourself out ... (read in full...)

How do I impress guys?

Q.   heyy im 14 and a freshman in highschool i take the train to and from school i go to an all girls school. on the train home alot of guys from an all boy school get on i no some of them but not well how do i impress them? it is hard because ...

A.   18 October 2006: just be yourself if they dont like you its them missing out ,you could try cacking a joke or to or just smile at them to break the ice ... (read in full...)

My married man has not called me yet?? I'm so confused!

Q.   well i started talking to a work man, he asked for my email i gave it him ,then couple days later asked for my phone number, then i didnt see him for 4 days wen i did he said ill be getting phone weekend ill phone u,but still nothing after,5 days he ...

A.   13 October 2006: it sounds like he has changed his mind or made up wiyh his wlfe sorry ... (read in full...)

I love this girl but I don't know if she loves me!!

Q.   i love this girl but i dont know if she loves me I love this girl who says that she loves me but she has a boyfriend. She says that she loves him too but why would she say that she loves me as well. We've had sex already and that makes me believ...

A.   13 October 2006: ask her then you will no for sure i no its hard to do but be brave or get a mate to ask her wat she thinks of you ... (read in full...)

Do men generally wear engagement rings?

Q.   Is it true that men don't usually wear their engagement rings? ...

A.   13 October 2006: maybe not a engagement ring but a male ring or chain to show its of your girlfrind and she loves you i think gold is a very privert thing between 2 people its a symble of love or friendship i always wear a chain my fella got me more than my ... (read in full...)

I've decided to let my crush go, wrote him a letter but have received no response!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Last Wednesday, I made the decision to accept the fact that my crush just wants to be friends and nothing more with me (in other words, I finally decided to let him go after nearly two years of constant pining over him). Well, on...

A.   13 October 2006: just let him go you dont want to let yourself look silly i no it hurts pride but hay we carnt always have wat we want ... (read in full...)

I've decided to let my crush go, wrote him a letter but have received no response!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Last Wednesday, I made the decision to accept the fact that my crush just wants to be friends and nothing more with me (in other words, I finally decided to let him go after nearly two years of constant pining over him). Well, on...

A.   13 October 2006: just let him go you dont want to let yourself look silly i no it hurts pride but hay we carnt always have wat we want ... (read in full...)

Why do I take so long to orgasm? How can I make it more pleasurable for me?

Q.   why do i take so long to cum? I dont really masterbate that often maybe like once every two weeks and maybe now and then once a week but still....I had sex for the first time and i didnt cum.....I had sex another time with the same girl but...

A.   13 October 2006: perhaps your just not into sex that much or your just not hitting the right spots on yourself i find my self to come i have to be in the right mood or sex does note at all to me ... (read in full...)

What shall I do? Is it possible to love two people?

Q.   I am married and have been for nearly 5 years. I am 24 and my husband is 28. I met a 20 year old man a year and a half ago who i have fallen head over heels with. The problem is I dont have to guts to leave my husband for him. I want to but I love ...

A.   11 October 2006: think of all the pros and cons befor you make you move is it really that bad with your bloke is they better waiting for you just because the man you with dont seem as intresting as you would like they could be other aspects like he is there when ... (read in full...)

How can you get over somebody who you still want so badly?

Q.   How can I get over a guy that I love? We started dating, then we broke up as he began to ignore me. He then got back in contact, i did as much as i knew to see if he was serious about trying again and so we started seeing each other again. He...

A.   11 October 2006: it hard and it hurts but time will heal i no it may not seem like it but it does .what you need is a stepping stone to keep your mind of the man you love go out have fun just do something ... (read in full...)

Do we stay together for the kids or should I just pack this in?

Q.   I am 39, have 3 children under 10, one from a previous marriage. I live with my partner and he is the most ignorant person I have ever met. I got pregnant 10 months afte meeting him and I didn't think it was fair to freeze him out of our lives, so I ...

A.   11 October 2006: the kids will bounce back they may even enjoy the change you sound really fed up and the longer you put up with it you will just stay fo an easy life .... it hard i no starting again but it be worth it in the long run you dont want the smell of pot ... (read in full...)

I love him but things dont seem the same, what should I do?

Q.   im so confused....i have been with someone for over a year, but things dont seem the same, sometimes he goes out and doesnt come home, call, etc. there is another guy that likes me and thinks i should leave the guy im with. what do i do? i love the ...

A.   11 October 2006: i think your parntner is having you on a string what is he doing and as for the other person that seems very intrested ask yourself could you be .... it it worth the risk ..... would it be good for you to have a fresh start or just take time out... (read in full...)

Im always so incecure and think it stems from a guy friend I really like!!

Q.   Please help, my insecurities are driving me crazy!!! I have noticed that in the last year or so, I have this tendency to be needed to be told that I am loved every single minute of the day. If that doesn't happen, I get really insecure and down on ...

A.   11 October 2006: if you were that bad you wouldnt have any friends for a start you are lucky you have a good frined that puts up with you ..... you need to tell this guy how much you like him you never no he may feel the same and if he dont at least you will no and ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a woman to have sex with someone and not want it! and can she have sex with a guy and not realise it ?

Q.   Ladies, is it possible for a women to have sex with someone but not want it? Also can a girl have sex with a guy but not know it is happening until it is too late? Because of hurt, alcohol, surprise, and confusion. Can a man just violate a woman so ...

A.   11 October 2006: yes its very posable for a woman to have sex without wanting it and i think a woman always sort of nos in there mind if thay have had sex with someone .. for a woman to have sex and not realize its happing so fast unwanted this can have very stong ... (read in full...)

How can I give him a hand job? His foreskin does't retract.

Q.   i want to give my boyfriend a handjob but the only thing is that he cannot retract his foreskin. he says he can still feel sensations and ejaculate. how should i give him the handjob? he has seeked medical advice and been told that he should be fine ...

A.   10 October 2006: just do it the normal way but try not to yank it and everything will be ok just play ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to date a someone 8 years older than you?

Q.   is it okay to date a someone 8 years older than you?...

A.   10 October 2006: yes it is as long as your 18 or over 8 years may sound alot but it aint at all they 17 years between me and my partner and we get on sound so go for it if you love him ... (read in full...)

How do I regain the spark in my relationship with my partner?

Q.   How do i regain the spark in my relationship with my partner? I love him heaps, We are getting married soon! I never want to have sex with him i always put it of....

A.   10 October 2006: sex aint be all and end all go out for meals play family games sing to him dance to him smile at him show you love him even if he is a grumpy so and so ... (read in full...)

In love with a woman, but we both have partners and a child each. Please help me!

Q.   I have fell for a women who I met a few months ago but there is a huge problem, We both have partners and one child each. Recently we started to get together secretly and have had a kiss and cuddle but I know it may soon lead to more. I almost pine ...

A.   10 October 2006: you may think you love her more than the one your with think if the crunch came to the crunch would you throw your relationship away .... its very exciting to have something on the side i no but ask yourself is the grass greener and is it worth all ... (read in full...)

I can't understand why he is mad at me.

Q.   i went out with the guy for two weeks that i met in the night bar.we went out to the night club in a week and then movies the next day.then we went out two more times and the last time we were out he got jelous as i just talked to a guy so he went ...

A.   10 October 2006: because you dint reply you may have hurt his male ego if you said sorry and you got no reply then its no loss cos he aint worth hanging around for sorry ... (read in full...)

I am currently in a great relationship, but she found out I recently sent emails to my ex because I harbour feelings of guilt.

Q.   Dear Cupid, I was in a relationship for 7 years and it bacame abusive and destructive during the last few years of that relationship. I became very guilty about how I let down her young children by not staying.But i couldnt stay..It was no g...

A.   10 October 2006: you are very silly sending e mails that your girlfriend found it would upset her it would me i bet she felt like crap when she found out you got some work to do to show her its her you care for ... the reason you feel guilty you may have a bond with ... (read in full...)

I have feelings for my cousins girlfriend. Please help!

Q.   Here's one for you... 6 months ago i was introduced to my cousin's girlfriend, no big deal. coincidentally, i started work at the same place as her, we quickly became friends, sharing all the same geeky interests like computer games. M...

A.   10 October 2006: stay clear a little she could just be playing you because she nos you fancy her test the water and interduce another girl and see her reaction ... (read in full...)

The masturbation equation

Q.   Ladies. do all women masturbate and do you like it when men masturbate?...

A.   10 October 2006: yes us women do masterbate but in private it dont bother me if a man masterbates in private but not in front of me ... (read in full...)

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